how do the people make girlfriends like does it take time like to first talk to her sometimes u can ask her to be u'r girlfriend anytime when u see a girl that u have never seen b4 or if a girl is sitting besides u in an aeroplane can u ask her to be u'r girl or what??????
2006-07-10 13:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
here's a hint: Never straddle a girl on the underground. A lot of men have lost their chance with me that way....
2006-07-10 13:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by bOb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you didn't get much social contact as a kid, this is assuming you are not still one. You can't just ask random girls to be your girlfriend. Although, I would love to see a young girls reaction to a strange man sitting next to her on a plane asking if she will be his girlfriend. Come on man, at least some level of friendship first. Then try to get a phone number or something, go on dates, see how it goes. You are going to get rejected a lot, that is just part of the game. You have to be able to forget about those girls and move on to the next.
2006-07-10 20:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Justin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking her questions about herself and being complimentary. Treat her like a lady. Show a genuine interest in her and her life. Don't make it all about you and what you want. Don't worry about wanting her to be your girl. That takes time, trust and friendship first. You can ask her out on a date, but if she declines be graceful. Don't get angry or depressed. It might not be about you at all but about something going on in her life. Maybe she's not at a place in her life where she wants to date. Just move on to the next one who attracts you. And keep being nice. Don't be a jerk because of something another girl did or said to you. That's got nothing to do with the next girl you talk to.
2006-07-10 20:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lame brain! Of course you have to have some kind of friendship or something first. I mean, what or who is going to just jump your bones because you happen to be sitting next to them on an airplane or whatever. However, if there's money involved ........
2006-07-11 16:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a female i would not recommend approaching any female you have never seen before and asking her to be your girlfriend...you need to introduce yourself, talk about seeing her there and her seeming to be approachable and then talk about general things...don't overdo the compliments and don't seem too anxious to get her for a girlfriend...no girl wants a guy that appears to be desparate...we want to think it took you a while to find us...we like romance and time spent with us...we want humor and strength...we don't want anyone rushing us into anything...we enjoy being chased...so, yes, it does take time...but anything worth having takes time to get!
2006-07-10 20:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time,friendship, respect. You need to be kind and thoughtful It will happen when the time is right.
2006-07-10 20:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by serenity seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to learn how to spell correctly and then speak so others understand you.
2006-07-10 20:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... and Be yourself all the time.
2006-07-10 20:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Krish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no---that definitely spells out stalker---or desperate!
2006-07-10 20:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋