2006-07-10 13:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by nubiestyme2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I just wanted to know what the majority of African American women thought...this is not any racial thing, you hear about this in all of the African American beauty salons...
Oh, and "our" is an expression, it isn't used as a term to claim a person by the way...just educating some of you who don't know!
All in all, don't get so offended!
2006-07-10 13:54:16 · update #1
I can't beleive yall trippin on "OUR" men how could a black woman (the ultimate nurturer) feel any other way? They are OUR men! We give birth to them, love them, feed them, support them mentally and have been doing this for a long time through the worst of times, and often at the expense of our well being, think of the relationships of your mothers and fathers, we were there when they were treated inhumane, but that i think is part of the problem, we have been there so long sacrificing so much, often we neglect our own well being. There is nothing wrong with feeling that black men are "Our Men" they are OUR brothers, OUR sons, OUR fathers, OUR uncles,OUR paw paws. That is fact that should never be denied.
2006-07-11 09:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by karamelicousone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can't be serious lol lol lol !!
How many men do you need to satisfy you? You should only be concerned with your man. There is no need for you to speculate and propagate nonsensical unfounded rhetoric, disguised as an intelligent inquiry.
On a real tip a real woman is not threatened by the skin color of another woman. The color is irrevelant. It's the skill, the appeal and the lure that gets Bill.
Slow down there's enough men (any color) for everyone! Just concentrate on yours, it's okay.
Peace Out.
2006-07-10 13:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question implies that African Americans should follow rules of behavior based upon their race. If black men "should" marry black women then what else should they do to stay in the confines of their race and class? I think it is better to let individuals make their own choices as they see fit. There is no taking going on. If a man is not "yours" yet he can't be "taken" from you. This is from an African American man who is happily married to a Hispanic woman.
2006-07-10 13:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. Black men are choosing to date outside of their race; the women are not taking anything. I believe that people have a right to date whomever they want; it's your reasons for dating a particular type of person that I have a problem with. I'm tired of hearing Black men constantly dogging us out. We're ball busting, evil, gold digging b****** who are mean and too strong and too dominant so they have to go find "nice" white women. You and I both know this is some bull; quit tearing us down to validate your reasons for only dating non-Black women. Other women can be just as trifling as SOME (not all) Black women. Women from other races can dog out Black men just like Black women. For instance, my Black boss's white ex-wife cheated on him. Maybe one day Black men will realize this and recognize that Black women are just as good as any other kind of woman. Just because the woman is white doesn't mean that she will be "better."
2006-07-13 21:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by mochasister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope so!!! LOL On the real though, I really could care less. I have dated all kinds of men and you know what, I can not tell the difference. Men are men...black, white, or asian..I LOVE THEM ALL!! I have bad experiences with both white and black men. So...white woman...It does not bother me at all..go for it girlfriend...and black women...get you a white man if you want one...who cares!!!
2006-07-10 14:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by SweetCoco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "our" men? You don't own them just because they're black.
And remember, it takes two people to have a relationship or have sex. White women are not doing anything out of the black man's control. It's not like they're holding guns to their heads saying "Look here, Tyrone, you're going to have sex with me."
Wake up, you damn racist.
2006-07-10 13:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a black women i so agree with what visarathedre... said.
Any black woman who says such a thing is a foolish twit!
They don't belong to us just like we don't belong to them.
We can all date who we feel like.
please drown those racist thoughts!!
come on now this is what our fore fathers fought for!!
The right to be accepted for who we are!!
2006-07-10 15:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by sweeiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a black female whose has had white, black, and hispanic boyfriends so I really don't care if white women date black men. Color shouldn't even come into play nowadays.
2006-07-10 13:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tiacola Version 9.0 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i just stole one of them the other day. i also really hate this question because i never hear woman of other races saying that some other race is stealing "our" men. there are plenty in the world. didn't your mom ever teach you to share?
2006-07-10 15:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by lOve / amor / amOur ™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha girl u trippin' Black men Love Black Women.....I got a Good...Great Black man and thats all I NEED
2006-07-12 14:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋