I am a guy that growup with parents that always had money. I always had everything I ever needed in life. I always lived in a nice neighborhood and dressed nice. Now, I found a LADY, to date in my life thats totally the opposite. She is a Trailer Park Trash. But, we get along great and we love spending time together. But, the ONLY problem that I see in her is the way she dresses. Like, t-shorts and a like big jeans and ugly shoes. I would like her to dress like a LADY. Like, nice jeans and blouses. I do not want to brake up with her. What do I do? Can I buy it for her? Do I tell her something?
2006-07-10 13:31:39 · 7 answers · asked by pencil1212 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Communication is the key. Tell her what you like and take her shopping for it. Let her see what she's like dressed up. I bet you'll see a positive change and I bet she'll be surprised in herself.
2006-07-10 13:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she dresses like this cause she was not brought up in the say way as you, with money, nice clothes, nice home etc. Did you ever think that she can't afford to dress like this. Don't go and insult her by telling her that you think she looks ugly in what she wears. And as for calling her "trailer trash" who the hell are you to judge, so she lives in a trailer, does that make her trash, at least she has a roof over her head. What kind of bf are you, and if you don't like the way she looks/dresses, then what the hell attracted you to her in the first place.
Sorry to be so harsh but you deserved it, talking about your gf like that. Shame on you.
2006-07-10 20:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sucks to be her. WOw.... I wonder if she knows that you know she is trailer park trash. lol I mean, you have the decency to call her that and then to make fun of how she dresses? What are you? God?...no one is perfect and if you dont like how she presents herself then shes not the one for you. High maintence people, and low class never last forever. So get over it if you really like her, but if you dwell on it so much then move on to a stuck up rich a$$ *****. Then you will be happy because yall will have so much in common. :) good luck!
2006-07-10 20:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you call or even refer to your lady love as "trailer park trash" ---that's not very kind.... it shows you really don't hold her in high regard.
Find someone who's more to your liking ----
2006-07-10 20:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her as she is but if you're still unsatisfied or whatever yeah go ahead and get her stuff but dont tell her you got her the stuff to fix herself up for your benefit. just be discreet about it if you can
2006-07-10 20:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love someone, it for who the are... not what they wear
2006-07-10 20:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to change her, she's not right for you.
2006-07-10 20:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Amy P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋