are cancer and scorpio compatible?

Question

my friends a cancer. She's on the cusp of leo, but she's still a cancer. and she's into this army brat. He's a scorpio. are they compatible. could a relationship work? what would there pitfalls be? their strengths. I found my happiness, i want her to have hers too. she seems to like him alot, and i know your signs can ultimately determine if you're doomed to failure, so i'm just a little curious. Whats in the stars for Cancer female and Scorpio male?

Answer 1

CANCER & SCOPRIO

Both being water signs, this combination shares strong, deep feelings and when in love, such love is liable to be "for keep." There is a major attraction to be found here, coupled with strong possessiveness on both sides. Each is an emotional character, but the way it is emoted is vastly different. Cancer is openly compassionate and sympathetic, unlike Scorpio who is not one for displaying sentiment, prone to act on the input he or she receives as opposed to hand-wringing, crying or sulking. When a Scorpio individual is hurt, others may never be aware of it, except for the chill which will suddenly permeate the atmosphere. With Cancer, however, the hurt is always obvious ...whether in silence or out loud, it is glaringly obvious.

Cancer is a more forgiving character than is Scorpio...in fact, a Scorpio individual seldom forgets a wrong done to him or her and can hold a grudge for years, perhaps even a lifetime. Nonetheless, there is a strong undercurrent of understanding in this Cancer/Scorpio combination, not to mention a true magnetic attraction. This mix could make for a wonderful marriage or, at the very least, a great friendship, provided Scorpio does not feel as though he or she is being trodden on. Scorpio will doubtless find the protective nature of Cancer to be truly comforting and there is believed to be be something of an actual psychic bond between these two signs ...a very harmonious blending of spirits. Both Cancer and Scorpio share a pure empathy, coupled with a very long memory for both the best and the worst. However, Cancer is probably the only sign that Scorpio is truly willing to try and forgive. This pair will keep each others' secrets safe and feel secure in each others' company.

On the negative side, Scorpio has trouble in understanding Cancer's inherent caution and Cancer refuses to tolerate any type of violence. Since Scorpio is prone to attack in a direct manner, this is very likely to frighten the Cancer partner, who tends to wait and think, only attacking after considering all the possibilities. Scorpio needs laughter in his or her life, but should never be teased...to the Scorpio character, this is offensive. There should never be any secrets between these two signs or it could very easily erode the security of the Cancer/Scorpio bond. When wounded, Scorpio quickly becomes resentful and vindictive. At times, the sensitive Cancer may feel that his or her Scorpio partner is being driven more by instinct and lust than true love and this could become something of an issue. Overall, however, this partnership makes for a deep and lasting attachment which is held together with an intense sense of unity.

Answer 2

Scorpio & Cancer Two Water signs dominated by sensuality... their sex life is likely to be thrilling! But is that enough? Cancer and Scorpio share a common craving. Both want to settle down; they claim to be monogamous, and instinctively sense the other's emotions. Both are comfortable in the realm of silence. However, Scorpio's rudeness may sometimes cause Cancer to recoil; Cancer's moodiness may be hard for Scorpio to bear. Moreover, Scorpio's overweening selfishness could wilt the strongest Cancerian love. If they endure, their love will be a symphony.

Answer 3

These two understand each other better than anyone else. Both are totally accepting of the other’s deep emotion and love of spiritual things. They are both very passionate about everything they do and never laugh at each other, no matter how strange their ideas may sound to others. Cancer’s gentleness can help Scorpio when she gets too intense, while Scorpio can encourage Cancer to come out of her shell and be more daring. This is a GREAT team!

Answer 4

Yes very. But as always in love, nothing is completely certain.

Cancer & Scorpio

Two Water signs dominated by sensuality... their sex life is likely to be thrilling! But is that enough? Cancer and Scorpio share a common craving. Both want to settle down; they claim to be monogamous, and instinctively sense the other's emotions. Both are comfortable in the realm of silence. However, Scorpio's rudeness may sometimes cause Cancer to recoil; Cancer's moodiness may be hard for Scorpio to bear. Moreover, Scorpio's overweening selfishness could wilt the strongest Cancerian love. If they endure, their love will be a symphony.

Answer 5

When Cancer and Scorpio make a love match, the resulting relationship draws together the energies of two emotionally intense Signs. Signs such as these often combine well, each partner's strengths balancing the other's weaknesses. These Signs feel a strong sexual attraction, and when they are together the temperature in the room tends to rise! Cancer and Scorpio have a great deal in common, and much potential to keep their relationship passionate and going strong.

Cancer and Scorpio enjoy buying things together and creating a comfortable living space: Cancer craves security and Scorpio strives for power. Both occupy their minds with thoughts of domestic goods and resources, including stocks, bonds and inheritances. Since they are both concerned with the home and have fierce loyalties to the family group, Cancer and Scorpio complement each other well. They both see life as a passionate and deeply emotionally exercise of human connection.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, while Mars (Passion) and Pluto (Power) both rule Scorpio. Thanks to Pluto's powerful influence, this is an intense combination of Planets, but it's also a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. These two Signs coming together form the basic foundation of human relationships -- The Moon's nurturing love and Mars' ambition and passion. The Moon and Mars go well together; the Moon is about growth and rebirth, and Mars is about the passion of romance. Scorpio, influenced by that Martian energy, is smoldering and intense, and emotional Cancer is attracted to this intensity. In turn, Scorpio enjoys the adoration inherent to Moon-ruled, nurturing Cancer.

Cancer and Scorpio are both Water Signs. Both are very deep Signs and, like the ocean, you can never really see to the bottom of these two. Scorpio and Cancer may draw further and further into themselves, then suddenly roar back with intimidating force. Loyalty is strong with this love match, thanks to their mutual desire for emotional security. But while Cancer fixes their emotional energy on the family and home, Scorpio focuses more on life's nuances and undertones, the secrets behind other's intentions, the power they can wield over other's emotions. Scorpio can take Cancer on a journey beyond the literal surface of things, and Cancer's expansive heart can open Scorpio up to their own emotions, teaching their Scorpio mate that feeling is nothing to fear. Additionally, Scorpio appreciates their Cancer mate's practicality, and Cancer really enjoys Scorpio's jealousy -- it proves that Scorpio really loves and cherishes them.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Once this couple have a common wish, it will come true. However, if their opinions clash, look out! Cancer will be the first to instigate an argument and Scorpio the last to finish it. Cancer may seem to act as the dominant partner and manage to get their way more often, but that isn't always the truth. Sometimes Scorpio won't even agree to disagree, they just might pretend to give in. Neither Cancer nor Scorpio are beyond using emotional manipulation to get revenge. Rather than letting disagreements and bad feelings boil over, these love partners must discuss what's truly important to them in order to reach an equitable compromise. Once Scorpio and Cancer learn to trust and believe in one another, they can achieve almost anything through sheer determination. This love relationship will only fail if the two partners truly cannot overcome their opinionated, stubborn sides.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Scorpio love match? Their powerful teamwork when they agree on their goals. When Cancer realizes that Scorpio is there for the long haul and that the partnership is emotionally productive, this relationship can blossom. Their mutual determination makes theirs a relationship of formidable strength.

Answer 6

From what I've heard, cancers on the cusp of leo are most compatible with librans on the cusp of scorpio (like me, incidentally). I don't think its the cancer part that's most attracted to scorpio, but then again I also read that cancer-leos are supposed to give in to their leo tendancies, because they have greater strength, and it seems likely that leos are attracted to scorpios, if cancer-leos are attracted to libra-scorpios.

However, I would say if it seems like a match there's no reason to consult the zodiac. It can make you feel insecure, or undermine otherwise good intentions.

Answer 7

So many people are spooked out by Scorpio, but you're totally drawn to him. You share the need to deal with life through emotions, and he knows you're somebody he can trust. The bond you share is reflected in your ruling planets. Your ruler, the Moon, feels safely guarded by his loyal and vigilant Mars. This relationship will be easy because you both have deep and rich emotional lives. You are also very protective, of yourselves, and also of your privacy as a couple. He will never kiss and tell...unless you betray him. One cautionary measure: Do not sweep your feelings under the rug. A misunderstanding can escalate into a full-scale attack very quickly with this boy. Also, allow him to keep one little secret to himself, and he'll happily tolerate your variable moods.From this relationship you'll learn a great deal about overcoming your fears, and you'll teach him everything about true love and tenderness.

Answer 8

Both of you have strong, deep feelings and you bond very intensely. Consequently you become attached to each other and cling tightly to each other. However, your emotional natures are different in many ways too. Cancer often feels more compassion and sympathy for someone, while Scorpio may view Cancer's feelings as sentimentality. When wounded, Scorpio becomes resentful and vindictive. Cancer on the other hand, cries or sulks, and usually lets the other person know (verbally or nonverbally) about it. Scorpio, by contrast, hides it.

You may also have different attitudes towards sexuality versus love. For example, Cancer may feel that Scorpio is sometimes more driven by instinct and lust than by love, and this may become an issue in your relationship. Overall, though, the intense bonding and emotionality of your relationship fosters a deep, lasting attachment between you.

Both of you are very sensitive and intuitive about others' needs and feelings, and become deeply attached to people. The two of you can become very, very close, intensely bonded to one another, for you both need and seek a very complete emotional union with your partner. Cancer is very dependent on loved ones, and so is Scorpio, though Scorpio doesn't always show or admit it. When you want something or care about something or someone, both of you are very emotional and often lose all objectivity.

For the most part you are quite compatible, but there are some differences. Scorpio is more passionate, more emotionally driven, and has very strong loves, hates, and emotional reactions to people and situations (though these feelings may be hidden).

Scorpio's depths are revealed to very few, and it is difficult for Scorpio to be openly vulnerable and to relinquish control in a relationship. Scorpio can be very vindictive when hurt or angry. Cancer, on the other hand, is softer, more tender and gentle, and may be upset at times by Scorpio's vehemence. Cancer wants and needs a very sympathetic, nurturing, non-competitive and peaceful atmosphere.

The two of you have a very strong psychic or telepathic link, and there is a great deal of sensitivity, empathy, and understanding between you. Idealism and devotion are important elements in your relationship and both of you may gladly give or sacrifice much for one another. Cancer encourages Scorpio to be receptive and somewhat passive. Scorpio is easily swayed by Cancer's emotions and moods, and this may be confusing or overwhelming, especially if Scorpio doesn't have a solid sense of self. Cancer, on the other hand, idolises Scorpio, and may have a very inaccurate picture of Scorpio's true nature and needs. Also, both of you may be very indirect or subtle in your communications. Strive to be straightforward and clear with one another.

You enjoy dynamic physical activities together, and it is likely that you enjoy playing sports, competing against each other, and pursuing life together in a spirited, zealous manner. You are quite a "dynamic due" but you are also inclined to become angry with each other and feel initiated by each other. The dynamism and impatience that you arouse in each other can also lead to pushiness, power struggles, anger, and hostility. Sexual attraction is also very intense and builds up suddenly and unexpectedly.

Possessiveness, may be a problem in your relationship. Since your sexual desires come on fairly suddenly and strongly, you will find it hard to regulate them at times. Love and sex 'explode' in this relationship. You cannot get enough of each other. It can be an erotic combination.

You have a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport that enables you to know one another very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps you to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one another.

Bursts of inspiration, creative imagination and insight, or strange psychic experiences makes your relationship lively and unusual. You may do some rather bizarre or unusual experimenting together. Avoidance of responsibility or reality can be a problem at times.

Answer 9

Honestly, I think if she likes him, then she should try it out for a while. If it doesn't work out then it just wasn't in God's plan for her. I'm know for a fact that the belief in horoscopes and all is bologna, but that is my opinion ( to me it is a fact though). But deciding not to give a guy a chance because your signs aren't compatible just isn't fair to the guy or the girl. She could be passing up a potentially great thing.

Answer 10

Yes, Actually they could make a lovely couple provided they share the same interest and take things slow. Good communication is the key to every lasting relationship.