How to avoid a person you don't like, especially if that person is the one you see every weekday of your life (workplace). Because even my day is good, but when I see this person, my whole day is ruined. PLS. HELP.
2006-07-10 13:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by shaznay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One thing's for sure, hating people is wrong. Disliking people is a much better and less harsher word.
When you're facing someone you dislike, say hi and just get on with what you do. Try to ignore the person but don't show that you're ignoring him/her. If he/she talks to you and you don't feel like talking, just say nicely and calmly that you're busy and have a lot of work to do.
The easiest way to avoid the person you hate/dislike is to settle the problem between you two because hatred can lead to many unpleasent things, especially ThE DaRk SiDe...
So, do try to loosen and ease up a bit, calm down and think back why you hate this person so much and how to handle it. Trust me, figuring out things for yourself is better than asking someone else, especially us strangers!
2006-07-10 14:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Firdaus Yosman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to end up the problem between the 2 of you! You did not mention what is the real problem with the 2 of you!You must have to ignore this person,dont think about him just focus on your work and don't plant hatred,just take it easy and the only way is to resign from your job and find other places to work! If I were you,I will not sacrifice my job just to avoid that useless person,forgive him if he had done something against you,that will relieves all your hatred and become comfortable everytime you see him!
2006-07-10 20:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, smile and say hello. Kindess can kill someone that knows you hate them...I live by this rule. I also don't allow other's to control how my day will turn out. Take control of your life and set yourself free. Good luck!
2006-07-10 20:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by rodaerc06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a mutual hate, just kill them with kindness. It will make them feel so much worse than if you ignored them totally.
2006-07-10 21:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell dem very nicely to leave u alone or ask dem to change but don't say it like dat
2006-07-10 20:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by janelle r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say a prayer about it..... It really works!
And if they did something to you for you to be insecure around them... watch how God works in your favor....
2006-07-10 20:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by yadedyah_dc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never hate anyone.
2006-07-10 21:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋