What do i do?

Question

ok what do i do if i can NOT stand my mom! she just pisses me off like none other!? she hates my friends, out of no where she started making me come home really early, and she lets my sister do anything she wants..she fukn pisses me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok everyones saying i should talk to her..but ive done that allready but she duznt fukn care what i have to say!!

Answer 1

take the mature approach and talk to her about it. Try and do it with a level head, and a good game plan. Obviously something happened to make her like that, so just find out what. Perhaps if she doesnt like the friends you have, they arnt a good group to be a part of so shes just protecting you.

Answer 2

Run away then start stripping Lol THEN.....get a no good boyfriend that beats your azz, loose everything you have while on drugs. Then ask what was I THINKING and go back home. My point here is that there is nothing you can do but grow up and get out on your own. If she isn't in your life now what I described is the life you are looking at....you need her and you will never appreciate how fukn annoying she is until you are on your own or have your own little fukers....Good luck she loves you accept it while she is still around to give tough love!

Answer 3

You sound very irritated.Let me first say sorry for all your going through with your mom.In a nut shell i want you to be proud of her if possible get to buy her gifts and let her know how much you love her remember you will never find another mom in the world and trust me if she was to die now then you would know that you had a good mom and that you loved her so why not show it to her when you have the chance.Then don't give up on her spear some time and in prayer tell God all about it He will do something in return trust me it works

Answer 4

I'm a whole lot older than you...and guess what? My Mom still pisses me off...but here's the thing...It's the only Mom you have; she is probably doing what she thinks is best for you...and wouldn't it be scary if you were "out there" on your own without some kinda guidence. Right? This seems to be a "rite of passage"...and what you are going through is perfectly normal. Here's something that would flip the script...try being really nice to her...she won't know what hit her! 'You can catch more flies with honey'...try it...you might like it.

Answer 5

Being a mom is so incredibly hard. You want to do the right thing, but your kids will be mad at you for many of the decisions that you make. Realize that your mom is doing the best job that she can, even if it doesn't seem like it, and try to be understanding.

Try to understand why she doesn't like your friends. Is she worried about you when you are with them? I worry when my son is with kids who use and make bad decisions. Of course, he wants to hang out with whoever he wants, but I still have to do the mom thing, even when it is difficult. It is my job, even if he hates me for not letting him go to a concert or something like that. Ultimately, I am here to protect my children. Try to see what is behind how your mom is acting.

Meanwhile, try to accomplish some positive goals and don't get into arguments if you can avoid it.

Answer 6

close your eyes and imangine a beautiful room , quiet music softly playing in the backgroud...the smell of beautiful flowers everywhere, surrounded by family and friends all hugging you...you look up and there she is your mother, the beautiful woman who gave life to you, who maybe sacraficed things she needed or wanted so that you might have food, clothing and shelter...those times that she "pissed" you off seem to not be so important now as she lay there...cold..motionless...gone... you remember the sound of her voice when you were a little child calming you in the middle of the night when awakend from a bad dream..or those new shoes you needed for the first day of school...how you wish you could say..."mom" you really did'nt fukn piss me off..i understand the love and sacrafice you've made for me...i understand now why you wanted me home early...you loved me so much you were afraid i might be hurt or..mom maybe you saw something in one of my friends that might lead me in the wrong direction........i know mom you want the best for me...how mom..how can i ever say i'm sorry for the foul language...those angry words i yelled at you...such love mom..such love i now see you had for me...oh God it's too late....sweetie whoever u are?...don't wait untill it's too late to love you mother the woman who walked through death to give you life who someday will lie cold and motionless in that grave...go to her..thank God for her love and protection for someday when you have your own little child you will suddenly realize that your mother was fukn pissing you off on purpose...grow up ...wake up...and make up to your mother...befor she's gone......i can tell you from experienc that there is nothing worse in life then to have to go lie on the ground where now your mother and father are sleeping and weep regretful tears of unforgivness...forgive..forget and clean up you mouth befor u have more regrets then you can live with.

Answer 7

see this is why life is hard you can love your sister but she gets her way the reason why is because you and your mother are probbaly alike see i have a sister to and itell you what you got to live with it but think if you were your big little sister and she was you she proabbly has to go to bed early and you can stay up think like your little sister this is her mine i wish i could be her she is jealous of you because she wants to be like you so your motherloves you even no that she can be a hand ful of work love them both. your mother is working hard for you . ps you give your sister time she will wan't to be like you if not say this no matter what do you are like a angel try saying nice stuff to her for a living

Answer 8

Talk to her about it - otherwise you'll get in trouble for staying in your room all the time. Make a list (at least that helps me keep on track) of times that you were treated differently than your sister and ask her why.

Answer 9

Regardless of your age, you are never to disrespect your mom. Talk to her about this, and talk like the adult you believe yourself to be. She's protecting you and looking out for your future, so be grateful to her. Wash your mouth out with soap, too, please, before speaking to her. You get only one mom in your life, so treat her as the special person she is!

Answer 10

First of all, with the language you use, you need to grow up. Second of all, it is obvious that there is a whole other side to this situation.