If Men and women are wired differently, and women struggle to understand men, and vice versa, shouldnt we work on getting them to know each other better, and solve problems like divorce, separation and its consequences.
2006-07-10 13:22:55 · 11 answers · asked by nitwit 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think the best thing to do is to start putting your spouse first- and think of their feelings first. If you are more concerned about the other person- communication will be easier. As long as there are no outside factors such as addidtion, abuse, adultery, dishonesty- that kind of stuff.
2006-07-10 13:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't bring men and women to do anything with regards to their own communication and relationships. The only one you get to work on is you. If you're a parent you get to try to influence your children. If you're a counselor....well, that's been eliminated by the last two words in the question. As appealing as it is to try to change other people, it just won't work, and it's intrusive and annoying, besides.
2006-07-10 13:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women will come to communicate effectively in relations when they see their preceding generation (namely their parents) communicating effectively in relationships. Until then they will need the help of counselling.
2006-07-10 13:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by x_chelsea_marie_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how will they get to counseling if they can't get through the first date? :)
there are a ton of great books out there that would really help if people would read them. as cheesy as it is, the men are from mars, women are from venus series is really good.
2006-07-10 13:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by silvertulie2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of the book called: Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars? EXCELLENT!!!!!!! Everyone should read this book!
2006-07-10 14:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have them date a lot of people and meet a lot of people and interact so they can understand the differences for themselves.
2006-07-10 13:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by SirCornman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. When you find out let me know. I'm in need of that help right now.
2006-07-10 13:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called talking. And then again, sometimes it's best to remain quiet.
2006-07-10 13:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by not matching up total opposites. Opposites really do not attract.
Start matching up with compatible partners.
eHarmony gaurantees it!
2006-07-10 13:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think improving their vocabularies would be a big help.
2006-07-10 13:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋