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marrying someone else and u just broke up with her...wish them luck (they will need it) and move on

2006-07-10 13:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Kerouac 6 · 0 0

I had a "soulmate" who dumped me and 5 months later moved in with another woman who looked just like me. Not letting him go destroyed every relationship I had for the next ten years. I ran the whole gamut from him being evil incarnate, to the Lancelot nobody else could live up to. He married that woman-she's bad to him, been pregnant by other men (lost all the children), and we hooked up again for a year when he said his marriage wasn't legal 9hey, you believe what you want sometimes). I finally saw him for what he was-yes, he loved me and always would, but he wasn't strong enough to stand up and do what was in his heart. I learned that I couldn't be a martyr, that I couldn't "make him well", couldn't "save him". And that two people can love each other and still not be able to be together; "one true love" is a falsehood. I've now been married for 9 years to a wonderful man who treats me neither as a doormat or a queen but as an equal, who slays dragons for me and encourages me to do a little slaying as well. We have 2 sons; when I was considering marrying him I remember thinking 'if I ever had a son I'd like him to be just like you'. Can't get higher praise than that. God knew better than I did what I needed. I know the gut wrenching numb aguish you feel; there's nothing worse and it feels like it will never end. YOU have the power to restore your life. You are fearfully and wonderfully made and deserve to be treasured. there are other sides to you, much more than your identity as her lover. Dig in, learn from it, and let it go. Don't violate your own morals and values and waste ten years of your life like I did.

2006-07-11 10:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jaimie S 1 · 0 0

Get up right now
Go to a mirror
Ask yourself this question?
Is she worth it.?
If she can move on with her life why cant you?
Love is never one sided there is always a response from the other side. If there is no response then the line is dead and you better keep the receiver down.This is not about a man or woman but its about life. you cannot keep crying over spilled milk for the rest of your life. Get up and move on maybe she was never interested in you and it was just hanging by the thread which broke.

2006-07-11 02:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by SPEEDO 2 · 0 0

First, get back to what it is that you do. I experienced heartbreak by a woman I thought was my soulmate but hey, get back on the horse, do what it is that you do.

Take off like a month or two and dont even worry about girls. Just do what makes you happy. Dont date out of loneliness or fear.

Just take your time and make sure you are happy with yourself. Maybe her marrying another man is the best thing that could have happened in your life.

2006-07-10 20:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by whatwouldyodado2006 4 · 0 0

to the way it was before the realtionship? You cant really except move on. I mean the world is always changing and you need to change with it or you will be stuck in a rut. I mean you cant be living in the past. If you mean geting back with your ex, welli would just let her go. She is getting married. I mean if you really want to show how much you love her let her make her own decision. Let her be happy man. How would you feel if you were her and you had someone trying to get you to not get married and be happy? Let her go man. Move on. There are other women in the world.

2006-07-10 20:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by windspirit33 2 · 0 0

move on, there is a reason why it dint work out. so be happy that at least you pple broke up which will always heal than a nasty divorce which is really painfull.

2006-07-11 11:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Move on

2006-07-10 20:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by robbet03 6 · 0 0

Please face the reality of life..... That you are not meant for each other. Life must go on.

2006-07-18 08:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rosario M 3 · 0 0

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