I mean...do you find yourself wondering if they're attracted to you or think you are attractive or do you think most people don't even think that way ? It sounds arrogant, but I think it's just human nature kicking in when you are around a new person or whatever. What do you think ?
2006-07-10 13:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
we all want to make a good impression with others, it is a natural thing to do. but, as far as wondering what they think of me; no, i don't give it much thought . i've learned that no matter what we do or try to do to impress people:
a. some will never like us.
b. our true nature always comes through and they see us for what we really are.
c. by being myself i can take a lot of pressure off of me and the others around me. those that aren't going to like me can go ahead and make that decision and i won't have to waste my time.
2006-07-20 14:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are type of person that always happy and polite to other people, it will show it on your face. It will influence the person/people that you are in contact with. So there is no worry about other people think about you because you are a very nice and positive person. Trust yourself and having your head up - smile and say hello to someone you see at the hallway. Good luck!
2006-07-10 20:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ken T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that whenever I'm around a new person of the opposite sex, I *DO* have what he's thinking on my mind: "Is he checking me out...does he think I'm too fat...etc." Whenever I'm around a woman, I don't have these thoughts and insecurities.
I think the only reason I have these thoughts around men is because I'm single. Maybe there's some biological answer to it. I'm inherently searching for a mate, even when I'm not trying to do it on purpose. I think if I had a boyfriend or if I were married, I wouldn't pay attention to what men around me think.
2006-07-10 20:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by WriterGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Its an inevitable outcome in dealing with people in general and especially with those who you consider friends, relatives and acquaintences of importance to you.
It is a natural human endeavor.
2006-07-20 13:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens all the time and I am like almost 100% that every guy and girl has wondered about it, that's the way we were made. Full of curiousity.
2006-07-10 20:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by kewl chiik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to think about what other people think of me, I just be myself Because most of the time people are thinking bout their own problems
2006-07-10 20:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal human behavior. Just be as good as you can be with everyone and they'll think nicely about you.
2006-07-10 20:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by ricardocoav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to but now I just don't care
man is life better not being concerned what people think
2006-07-10 20:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every know and then but I am way to busy to day dream on that one!
2006-07-10 20:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by colinsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that way all the time, like always wanting to know what other people think about me, i always want to know, it's weird, and i wish i didn't care so much, but i do...
2006-07-10 20:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by tennis-fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋