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Me and my best friend arent talking anymore,so i only talk to my other friend who happens to be her friend too.The problem is that what me and my ex best friend are saying things and its all twisted to the point where my mom is thinking of not letting me see my other friend anymore.Lately ive ben thinking of running away so i dont have to deal with this anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Hey.
It will all be okay.
Its just a bit of drama ..
I know it may seem like the end of the world...
but it isnt, i know from expierence.
My 7th grade year, into this summer...
7th grade year well.. sumer after 7th grade..
my best friend Gaby ran away.
She cut and didnt eat and was very self abusive.
My mom knew all about ti, and told me i couldnt be her friend anymore because she brought me down emotionally. As i tried to help her through her problems, the more upset i got.. So that summer, when I wasnt allowed to hang with her anymore...i got really depressed. I wanted to die... 8th grade came along...her and I had no classes together. We rode the same bus..and talked occasionally. My best friends Savannah Jessi and britt were friends with her too...until the drama came. They hated her. SO i didnt really talk to her much...then i did....then I didnt, so on and so on. Anywasys... I got into a lot of lies and drama throughout the year.... roomers....drama..lies..yeah the works. and my other best friends ( amy ) was mad at me for something i didnt do...and i hated that because we were BFFE. So i wanted to run away... I was going to....I had it all planned out...but then i realized....how much better i had it at home than on the streets....my life isnt perfect at home, FAR from it...but its better than being homeless....and then having cops come find you...and ....dealing with the consiquences when you get back home. Amy and I made up..she was having troubles...wanted to run away...which made me more upset with everything going on so i didnt know what to do.
basically so this isnt more of a novel.
Iw anted to run away and//or die. I found out it wasnt worth it, i mean its one friend and you will have plenty more through out your life. You and this friend...well i tink you should slowly drift apart from her..no matter how hard it is....she causing the drama between you and your mom...and thats not good. I knwo it sounds terrible but trust your mothers instinct for once. She can be right sometimes..I know its hard to believe but hey! its true.
heres the plan i think you should follow


** Buy a journal//diary if you dont already have one. Write in it everything that day that happened. get a highlighter and highlight all of the good thing that happened..put as many as you can even if its soemthing like...i hung out with " so and so " today and it was fun. After you write a little in it...go back and read it.

** Try to realize whats really going on. I know you can find someone else out there to trust that your mom will also approve of.. i know you can do it....Just slowly stop talking to this girl and slowly stop hanging with her ETC. and your mom will be happy..

** Live life to the fullest. Have fun and live each day like theres no tomorrow. Dont do drugs .. remember...crack kills. lol...haha but really...dont..there bad....anyways..

** Hang out with people that will give you a positive influence on life. People that arnt self concious, people that are happy..people that lie to have fun..you will be a happier person faster than you you will realize.

** Dont run away. Think of all the great things you'd be leaving. No more computer, phone...friends..money..life ANYTHING. Until the cops find you and your grounded from them forever.

** Be hapy. When you wake up in the morning...think, be happy when you wake up...not be un-happy...you have the choice to make your day good or bad, just make it good.

** Do somehting yo ulike...find a hobby and that can be your outlet...yoru stress reliever...mine is soccer..and music...and they both really help.


I really hope I helped you out some....And the funny think is...i mdoing the list above i just typed to you...I know its easier said than done...i KNOW. but just try. It will be worth it in the end.

Answer 2

Many of us are fortunate enough to have friends who are a consistent part of our lives throughout all our ups and downs. However, sometimes others we consider friends appear to enter, then depart from our lives for reasons we try to, but don't always, understand. This piece nicely explains the flow of people in and out of our lives.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON, b ecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

Answer 3

Act like an adult. Call your ex friends mom up and tell her what is going on and that you want to clear the air. Then set up a meeting with your old bud with both of your moms present and say what you need to say to one another. behave as a adult and speak your mind in a rational manner.

You will find that most of the drama between you too is just a load of crap that doesn't matter and the real problems are your other friends egging you both on for their own enjoyment.

Answer 4

some friends you deal with now you will eventually out grow. only a few people still remain friends thru adulthood. so make new friends don't sweat the small stuff and don't run away!!!! people come and go in our lives all the time. some are like leaves come and go like the weather some are branches only temporary and others are roots of that tree will forever be around. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Stop talking to both of these "friends." You need new ones really badly. And they aren't worth running away from.

You need to become much, much sneakier and stealthier before you run away from your mother. She knows 100 times more about you than you know about her. She doesn't know it, but she's teaching you to hide things from her (just as she STILL has a lot of things she hid from her mother!) Don't pick a fight with her.

Hit the books. Good grades are your ticket to personal freedom. Do it even if people call you a nerd. It's the right way out of your situation.

Answer 6

Running away isn't the answer to your question it won't solve anything it will just make the situation worse then what it already is. You should try to get on good terms with your ex best friend so that ya'll won't be putting ya'lls friend in between ya'll. This should solve all of your problems if not, then you should just not talk about your ex best friend.

Answer 7

ya a child would run away. r u a child? or an adult? why dont u tell ur mother that its ur problem and ur ex bf's n u will handle it. maybe u n ur ex bf need to get together n talk about what u n her have said about each otha. i think that is the only way its gonna get worked out, bc u see the reason things r gettin twisted is bc ur otha so called friends are twistin them on purpose just to keep themselves intertained n u 2 fightin even more. great friends eh?

Answer 8

DO NOT RUN AWAY!!! walk up to your friend and tell her that you want to talk, that things are getting way out of hand and all you want is to be her friend!!! forgive her and tell her that you too are sorry and stop playing into the other friends games!!! be strong and honest and what ever happens let it go!!! if she says sorry, accept it and move on, if not then go make other friends!!!

Answer 9

let me tell you something, let it go, just let it go, i mean at your age there are going to be all kinds of things you are going to go threw that your mom is going to do or say that you will not agree with, but if you think this is hard, wait till you get to be 18 and you are saposed to be independant and work and live on your own, that is when the real problems start, so if i were you i would stay where you are and just do what your mom says, she more than likely has a good reason why anyways that you wont understand till you get older! good luck!

Answer 10

I would say that you need to find someone new to hang around you dont need to runaway over two people are more than likely not thinking about you While your getting in trouble from running away your friends are going to be sitting at home comfortably think about it twice sweetie