2006-07-10 12:52:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
well ..explain the process of porn as unrealistic way of sexual activities....it's all acting and fantasy. the real world women do not act that way nor react that way during sex....it's about personality and characters and most of all respect of the person's body.....both men and women regularly deal with physical issues like menstruation, wet dreams..premature ejaculations and so on.....
2006-07-10 12:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him very plainly and directly. If your are concerned about him watching porn on the internet then explain to him honestly what the problem is. Don't sugar coat anything or try to lay a guilt trip. Tell him everything you know, answer any questions he has, and look up the answers to any questions you can't answer. If you're not completely comfortable being this forthright, tell your son why and be prepared for a little backlash. Only by being completely honest can you hope that your son will respect you, his body, and the bodies of his future sexual partners.
2006-07-10 20:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up blockers on the computer and TV.
And for HIS sake, talk to him instead of leaving him in the dark.
Set a good example for him.
Does he watch you treating women with disrespect?
Does he see you looking at Porn?
Your actions...will speak speak louder than words...so what is your daily actions teaching your son?
Sometimes we get worried because our kids are imitating us...
Sometimes they are giving into peer pressure.
He needs you to talk to him and let him know that what he is doing no only unacceptably,
but that you love him and are there for him when he needs to talk.
But don't wait fro him...
talk to him first...everyday...and show him threw a pat on the back or a hug that he is loved by you and the rest of the family.
2006-07-10 20:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on the idea that you are going to get him "over" this habit.
Then answer his questions, honestly, and frankly, giving just enough information to answer his question - WITHOUT judgement or condemnation. If he needs more information he will ask you clarifying questions.
Suport him and his growth into manhood.
If you do ANYTHING else - or if he gets the slightest wisp of a hint that you think what he is doing / wants to do is bad, or wrong, or dirty - he will never return to you for your judgement, or your information - but he will get information from other sources, not nessicarily correct information - but information none the less.
2006-07-10 20:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...get control over the internet and what he is allowed to see....I would hate for him to think that women enjoy sex that way and that women should be treated that way. Secondly...find some interesting but not boring literature about it. Be honest and open with him...tell him that you won't judge him and that you want him to be properly informed on the topic. Good luck
2006-07-10 20:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by RN 1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break him of the porn watching habit while he is young I know too many old men who do nothing but look at porn on the net.
2006-07-10 19:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by cancerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no good to see those bad materials I think.you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-10 22:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly first and try to motivate telling the negative side of porn materials. Don't make hurry. Motivational process should be slow.
2006-07-10 20:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ovaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeffery Daumer the serial cannibal killer started watching porn at a young age.Look how he turned out !
If your son has a computer in his room,take it out or have it where everyone is around.
Kid's will be kid's but control what you can ! !
2006-07-11 12:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a 15 year old son and when he was 14 we had a simular situation. i thought about how to approach him and finally decided to make it VERY matter-of-factly (i figured, if he is old enough to gander, he is old enough to hear reality). it really wasn't that bad...he actually opened up (i know, imagine a 14 year old opening up to his parent), and we had as comfortable conversation as it could get---under the circumstances......our children know more than we ever dared to know. now we talk about everything.....
2006-07-10 20:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by charlie818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋