2006-07-10 12:48:49 · 15 answers · asked by LARCO 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Say, "You've screwed around on me for the last time. Get out."
2006-07-10 12:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would be my ex spouse. U may forgive 1 affair but not2. There is no excuse for a affair. If u do not love someone any more , get rid of them & find someone u do want. My wife would get rid of me in a heartbeat if I cheated only once. She would not wait for a 2nd. time. She told me that 42 yrs ago. I believe her//
2006-07-10 13:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk w/ your spouse, give them another chance and try to understand why they needed to go have an affair
2006-07-10 12:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him first. Then, I would decide if I wanted to stay with him or not. If I stayed with him, I would have to accept it that he WILL do it again and again, and I will lose my self-esteem, and confidence. If I don't stay with him, then I will have to start over again, but at least I would eventually gain strength and confidence in my abilities to stand up to something and someone who is no good for me!
2006-07-10 13:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a seroius talkin with him....ask lots of questions...the basics..who, what, WHY, and when......there must be a reason and if you can get to the root of the problem then maybe you can save your marriage... but it will take time, and patience.
2006-07-10 12:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by amyann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much money would you miss if you divorced?Stay and play the game if the money is right.Dont let him know you know.Use him up!Never let your enemy know where they hurt you!
2006-07-10 12:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very hurt. But I'd talk to him about the need of why he needs to cheat. I don't know.
2006-07-10 12:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to find at least one of them and tell them to come back and get him ,i would also buy her a thank you card
2006-07-10 12:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by sclady62001p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY, YOUR SPOUSE IS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE LACKING, SO, LET THIS PERSON GO.
2006-07-10 12:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by renitrapcs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things...
1. pack
2. leave
2006-07-10 12:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋