2006-07-10 12:46:56 · 49 answers · asked by Cindy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're lucky! hahaha My guy wont have any part of that one..........BUT would LOVE to see me with a chick!! Go figure........he even says I dont even have to do her he'd just like to see her doing me........OH WOW!! LOL.......I'm sooo not into that........
Neither is "normal" really.........It's just about preference......Some guys would love either or......and some neither..........
Theres nothing wrong with him......maybe he's just aroused at the thought of you being pleased and open minded enough and secure enough to know that although you may enjoy the experience as much as he it wont shift your relationship and theres no threat there its all in fun and sex games..........and at that point its just up to you if youre up for it or not.........
its not weird.........i have friends that do it all the time........even threesomes with their guys and friends........they are SUPER outgoing.........Ive never been that open with myself so no worries............like i said...........
Its all about preference..........just make sure you're comfortable whatever you decide on and dont feel pressured ...........whatever happens happens eh ?! ;)
2006-07-10 12:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by CaliCutie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound normal. But think about this before you do it. If you relationship is only about sex then it might be fun for you but if you and your boyfriend are in it for the real deal then eventually he is going to get mad that he say you with another guy. And also this might be just a ploy to get you to later let him have sex with another girl in front of you which is more of the usually guy fantasy type.
2006-07-10 12:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Most guys want their woman all to themselves. But everyone has their own specific fantasies, and this appears to be his. Before you agree to it, discuss it with him, talk to him, make sure it is something you BOTH want. Sometimes fantasies are best left to being fantasies...cause once they've been acted out they can bring problems and disappointment.
2006-07-10 12:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! He is not right in his mind. THis is not normal at all. Not to watch your own GF do it with another guy. He doesnt have any respect for you whatsoever. I cant believe you had to ask this question. YOu should have some sense about this type of thing. If you do do it, your just as messed up in your mind as he is.
2006-07-10 12:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal but it can be fun if you and your boyfriend are serious. Mine wanted me to have sex with his best friend and from then on it was us three. They never did anything together so it wasn't a gay thing like some guys suggest. My boyfriend said it was like watching a porno only live.
2006-07-10 14:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by mia_blankenship 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a common fantasy and fine as that, but in reality its an awful idea. leave it just be a fantasy, many relationships have been destroyed beyond repair by making it reality. in fact if you look it up through the 'search for questions' feature you will find lots have asked this in the past too.
2006-07-10 12:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a normal one for stupid immature jerks. Is this REALLY the kind of boyfriend that you want? What about deserve? I would tell him to let me watch him with two guys first, and then I will do it. And if he won't do it, then you never have to. And if he does do it, KICK HIM TO THE CURB. Either way, you don't have to. Why should girls always think they have to fulfill stupid boys' fantasies? Grow up!!!!
2006-07-10 12:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With some guys this is a fantasy that turns them on, not me I get to jealous with that being said. It's you doing it so it is up to you. Don't let his fantasy become your reality, you can tell him no that you don't want to be with anybody but him.
2006-07-10 13:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by mlingen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hell it isn't normal!!!!! It might not be for everyone but it is in my case. I've seen my wife with other men and it is a huge turn on for us both. Been married for 13 years and our sex life is better than ever
2006-07-10 12:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by seasonedhusband 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it's all that weird honestly. it's not my thing but their are alot of fetishes out there and one is people who like to watch. i wouldn't treat him like a freak for it and he doesn't want you having sex with other guys whenever, just when he says its cool and gets to watch. of course it's a little different so if its not your deal tell him, see if he lets it go, and if not you'll have to move on. some people have very serious fixations and that may be his. i don't think most guys feel like him but i don't think he's odd either.
2006-07-10 12:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by adman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋