He was in the Army for 10 years and got hurt but he does not get any money for it.He said thata friends child gets it.What do u think?He says its not his child
2006-07-10 12:41:09 · 7 answers · asked by ksam73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is a possibility that it is his child and he either can't be apart of the child's life or he made alot of wrong decisions in his past that he does not know how to fix and he does not want to share that with you or any body else. And maybe you should except that because there are alot of things in peoples past that can be very scared and painful to revisit maybe you can relate to that or maybe not but i know i can, so don't try and pride because some things are better left unsaid.
2006-07-10 12:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by sexy chocolatecakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful, you may not be ready to actually hear the answer, so be really sure you really want to know. Everyone has skeletons in their closet and some are better left exactly there. You probably would be better off asking this question a different way, since you know he has a little girl, address your questions around her, how old, whats she like, etc. It shows an unintentional interest in his daughter, and in return you may unexpectantly get the answers you seek. Just be careful because you may not be ready for what you hear and get ready to release some forgotten skeleton of your own
2006-07-10 20:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well that is odd! But I dont even know how much money my husband has either.But I do think It is ok you ask.But sounds like you are not getting anywhere.One way to look at this is its in his past and you were not part of that so could be meddling even though your the wife.You need to respect him!
2006-07-10 20:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to his parents...he isn't being truthful. The only way a child can receive any military benefits is if a parent was in the military. Why didn't any of this come up before you were married...if it did WHY did you marry him before it was cleared up?
2006-07-19 02:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm strange, why did you marry him without knowing what you felt you needed to know about him? i guess now that you are here you can't really b*tch about it too much. but i can't imagine why the military would give his money to someone elses child, smells bad to me.
2006-07-10 20:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought one of the fundamental keys to a successful marriage is HONESTY!!!
2006-07-10 19:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a PI to check on it.
2006-07-10 19:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋