any ideas to what it might be going on i am 14
2006-07-10 12:40:06 · 17 answers · asked by liz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i told u i am not getting my period because i just finished it on july2
2006-07-10 12:46:11 · update #1
we were both wearing condoms properly
2006-07-10 12:47:21 · update #2
my doc is a man
2006-07-10 12:53:30 · update #3
no critisizim or anything but 14 years old and losing virginity, doesnt sound to good Ms.Thing... How about you take a breather.. But regarding your question.. Maybe it might just be the "after pains" Did you "cherry" pop..
Some questions are meant for the real world, dont you agree?
2006-07-10 12:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Stevenson J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it may only be a urinary infection, or a sexually transmitted disease. (STD) With an STD, if you ignore it, the pain may go away, but then it can hide and cause you to be infertile (not be able to have children).
The only safe thing to do is to see a doctor and get a test for a urinary infection, and for STD's, and then take the medicine the doctor prescribes.
My advice is to tell one or both of you parents, and tell them you need help in dealing with this.
If you feel that you can't talk to your parents, I can understand that. It would be good if you could, but the alternative is to ask to go to the doctor and tell your parents that your stomach hurts, and then when you see the doctor, tell her the real reason that you are there. Your doctor will keep it confidential if you ask them to.
The next time you have sex, it is very important that you use a condom, to avoid this from happening again. Also, you don't need to have sex if you don't want to. If the guy pressures you, then just say no, politely.
Also, talking to your parents may be easier than you think. I know they may seem difficult sometimes, but they will always be there for you, and love you, no matter what, even if they are angry.
Good luck, I know you can fix things.
2006-07-10 12:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Atom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't want to lecture you but, at the age of 14 it is way to young to be having sex. But to answer your question. You said your period just ended July 2.. It is only July 10. Unless you have some very strange menstrual cycle. I would really doubt that you are pregnant. A normal menstrual cycle is 28 days. Count the first day you start menstruating (your period) to your next period.
This is how long your cycle is it could be 17 days, 26 days or maybe 30 days.
But I feel like if you have to come online to find this information out. Then you are too young.
2006-07-10 13:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am only 19, and I know what it's like to have sex before you are married, but i waited until I was almost doen with high school. You really should think about this more. Secindly, it could be an infection, or you could have hurt your back while having sex. You need to take responsibility for your actions - you need to tell your parents or at least one of them what is going on so that you can get a doctor's appt. If you got pregnant as a result of having sex at that party, you would not be showing any signs of pain right now, so if that's what you are thinking, I highly doubt that is the problem.
2006-07-10 12:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by kmks_030787 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are headed down the wrong ******* path. Fourteen? I was sixteen when I lost my virginity and that is still young. No more okay? Because you get scares like this, and you arent mature enough to handle it. (aka: coming on the internet and asknig total strangers) Age is one of the best teachers, and here is my proof. Sometimes you can get cramps a week before your actual period. They dont teach it to you yet, but when your a big girl...they'll teach you the symptoms of pregnancy.
Please babes, I know Im no full blown adult, but trust me...okay? I am still technically a teenager.
2006-07-10 12:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may (or not) have a std if you do you need treated as soon as you can. Its usually just a shot or some pills. If it is an std and you wait to long you can realy screw up your body including your chances to have children. See a doctor soon
2006-07-10 12:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by snakewort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"sex with this guy at a party"....at 14.....say hello to STD's and what are u doing having permiscuous sex in the first place, and what if he wasnt wearing the condom properlly...ur screwed.
2006-07-10 13:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are fixing to start your period. You could be having period cramps. I used to get them a few days before my period.
2006-07-10 12:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a dr. right away. it could be an infection
had a girl friend it was toxic shock syndrone almost died.
Germs can get up in there that can kill you.
2006-07-10 12:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll might've don it too hard and that may cause pain or the condom poped and ur stomach's gonna pop also
2006-07-10 13:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by lyssie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋