Do ugly people know they are ugly? i see ugly people tryin to talk to cute ppl like they have a chance what is

Question

up with that? No pun intended, I have lots of ugly co-workers :)

Answer 1

Watch it, Allissa J., 'cause you're gonna get alot of flack from this ??? of yours. Personally, I think it's quite a cute question. I know people out there that think you're a snob, stuck-up whatever for asking DO understand what you mean, they just don't want to ADMIT IT. Albeit, they more than likely have a kind heart that doesn't mind when someone less intelligent or classy or good looking makes a pass at them...or stalks them.

Allissa, I don't think it's a snob-thang...believe or not, I think it's more a genetics thing. Oh yea. If you think you're hot, there are many who would say you're definately NOT! There are others who would say the "uglies" are cuter than you are.

Then...there are the "uglies." Shoot! They think they're cuter than the real "uglies."

Allissa, I believe it's a ladder of genetics. Ugly people (whatever they think ugly may be) are subconciously searching to climb the ladder and find someone a little stronger, a little, smarter, a little more healthier, and higher up the ladder in wealth and class. Why? Common sense says they want smarter children with stronger immune systems and better standard of living...isn't that what you want in life...and also for your children? Of course, Allissa. Everyone does!

Of course, in our hearts, we will choose a person, perhaps, whose personality appeals to us, coupled with those physical and social traits we are subconsciously searching for.

When someone who doesn't quite fit the profile of someone who will lift our unborn children up the "ladder," then they seem a distraction, a barrior, even a threat. We place an unseen wall, actually, not less than three walls to protect us from unwanted solicitations.

There may be a wall around you that keeps strangers away. There is a closer wall to you that keeps strangers away but allows you to meet new people on a daily basis like at school, work, etc. There is another wall that is closer to you that keeps them out but allows people who are sort of like strangers but you consider them friendly even though you haven't befriended them, like mailman, policemen, your teachers or child's teacher, etc. There is a wall closer to you that keeps them out but allows aquaintances like "friends" you say hi and bye and small gossip at social clubs, school, church, work, etc. Another wall blocks them out but allows friends; another wall only allows close friends; another wall only allows your family; then another wall only allows your boy or girlfriend, or lover, or husband/wife; another wall only allows your children; another wall only allows your God.

Anyone whom you feel crosses over these "walls," may feel like a pest, or a threat to you. They're only safety barriors not to be meant as snobbish....Allissa, you are only snobbish if you treat those crossing the walls with rudeness and disrespect. Unless they're a threat to your life, then be nice...after all...subconciously, they're ONLY trying to climb the genetic ladder; everyone is...and also, what is ugly to you may be beauty to another (and vice versa). This is my opinion, Allissa. Hope you liked it......alice

Answer 2

No pun intended?
Just goes to show you that you are a very visual person and don't understand that every human being is beautiful. We ALL are.
You could become 'ugly' if you have an accident or keep this kind of attitude about others.
Grow up! and smell the roses. Not all are perfect, but they do smell good. Same with people. Don't judge people by their covers. You may miss some good people in your life that can teach you what life is really about, even if they are not attractive.

Answer 3

i became partial to Jon and Kate Plus 8 besides yet i imagine they have fairly "bought out". The tutor surely became about gazing the established antics of attempting to juggle all those children and now that they have got a lot of money, they moved right into a mansion and characteristic a lot of employed help. that's purely no longer the same. i will proceed to visual show unit it although purely 'reason the children are attractive and that i do imagine that's hilarious how Kate nitpicks at each and every little element Jon says or does. i do no longer like the Duggars. I purely imagine they're only way too religious and that i do not believe their procedures. i do not imagine the children must be living house schooled and they are hypocrites. they don't remember on television yet they haven't any problem making greenbacks off of being on television. you would possibly want to be sure what I propose slightly, acceptable? Plus, they're lazy. The dad purely makes funds off of possessing some resources even as he must be out getting a actual interest. i imagine he also feels adult men are more acceptable to women. that is purely the way i trust although.

Answer 4

You are a condescending little person! You are one of the ugliest people I have met on here. It's people like you who look at my husband and I funny just because I am 13 years older than he is and I am no beauty and he is very handsome . Thank God he is smart enough to know true beauty is inner. One day your looks will fade and you will be a lonely old person. I wish I could e-mail this question to you 30 years from now. I don't care what you do or how much you spend you will not look the same as you do today. Good Luck cause with your attitude you are going to need it!

Answer 5

Who's to say who is "ugly" and who isnt? Ugly is in the heart, it has nothing to do with looks. Some people have "unique" features and others simply have standard features. The concept of "ugly" is really superficial because it changes over time and countries. Anyway, this isn't the answer you are looking for, but it had to be said. If you see 'ugly' all around you, maybe you should look in a mirror at your heart.

Answer 6

I am not that shallow. I talk to everyone no matter what they look like. There are lots of people who are unattractive on the outside but are the nicest people you would want to know on the inside. I've also met some good looking people who have no soul and are very ugly on the inside. :) Once you feel better about yourself, you won't be so critical of others.

Answer 7

YOU think they're ugly. To them, they might count themselves as beautiful because most people care more about themselves. Like they just want to believe they are beautiful, so they are.

Those "cute people" might be thinking that the "ugly people" are cute too, though. I've seen that before tons and tons of times. But you know what? That's only because I think one person is ugly and another is beautiful or cute.

So I can't really exactly answer you question because to answer this question, somebody has to think like you because one person can be handsome or beautiful to me and they might be ugly to you.

This isn't to offend you, I'm just saying what i think.

Answer 8

Believe it or not, what is considered beautiful or ugly is different from culture to culture.

and there was a time when Americans used "ugly" to describe a behavior, or attitude.

Aside from that, people NEED to talk to other people at work to get the work done.



Aren't there more important things in your life and your work than spending time comparing the relative appearance of people who talk to one another ?

Answer 9

What gives you the right to call anyone ugly??Is there a law in the world that says people who you think are ugly are not allowed to talk to people you consider cute?I think you're being shallow right now.

Answer 10

Ugly according to your definition or what? How would you know who the "cute" people find atractive? Maybe the "ugly" ones have more of a chance than you know. How about you. Bet you think you are pretty hot. For sure a lot of people you know don't think the same thing about you that you do!

Answer 11

That's a very shallow and immature question. I guess you'll never marry someone like Bill Gates who's not exactly cute but who is the richest man on earth.

Maybe you'll marry the high school football hero who turns into a slob in 10 years and sits all evening watching the sports channel.