Are Teens Only After Sex These Days?

Question

Ok, I run a Teen Chat community at http://alltopix.com I run it since 2004 and it is a friendly place to chat and talk but here comes my question:

My site is popular and there are many "Guests" browsing the forums day and night (30 - 70 most times) so what I wonder about is: Why are the guestsnot creating an account to join discussions? Is it because we are too friendly (meaning we don't copy other forums and make them sexuality forums just to get more people or what could it be?

Looking at other teen forums you will fins 90% sexuality topics so is it really that bad not to talk about sex only? Shouldn't it be something great to find a friendly forum where people just talk about anything instead just discussing sex sex and again sex?

We even run contests and stuff to attract new people but it seems like most people just come as guest and leave as guest for some reasons.

What do you think?

P.S: I know some guests are search spiders but there are search engine spiders

Edit: I never said teens ARE only after it - I just wonder why people are less interested in making friends or chatting with others than in sexual discussions :)

Answer 1

most teens just want to have sex to be cool and popular.
others do it because it FEELS GOOD.
it's called RAGING HORMONES.

Answer 2

I'm a teen, and not like that about sex and all, but then again, I don't really like interacting with people all together. I think only the ones who feel safe behind their computers and can't make friends in real life go on there and talk about sex, and there are many people like that on there so they all interact with one another. It bothers me when people are so shallow, so I know some of "us" try to stay away from all that.

They might not be making accounts because they aren't teens, or they are only on there to talk about sex and don't want to go through all the "hassle" of signing up, but I really don't know why a person would do all that..


cuddlebug815: not all teens think it is "cool." Some view it as a way to be accepted, some are pressured, some just love it, and some are smarter than to do that at such an early age, knowing that the possible consequences can ruin their lives forever.

(the person two below explains further)

Answer 3

I hate it when adults say that teens are just "terribe" not all of us have sex,not all of us choose wrong friends, not all of us do drugs, not all of us drink, not all of us go to wild parties! a lot of us get good grades, a lot of us are responsible, a lot of us want privacy, a lot of us like to go shopping or skateboarding...... just stop.

Answer 4

kids today think its cool. even if theyre not having intercourse, theyre having oral sex. i guess theyre part of the clinton age. lol
but seriously, my stepdaughter, 15 yo, has talked to boys at school about blow jobs, and has even told me she's done it. now, whether she has or not, who knows, but i think shes done more than that, actually. its really sad and scary.

Answer 5

no not all teens are after sex!!!! you are generalizing us! my friends and i have never even so much as talked about sex except for science class!!!!!

Answer 6

well no and yes teens are really interested during puberty and want it badly but then they grow up its all bout da hormones

Answer 7

Ya know, teens are just strange, alll teens grow out of it

Answer 8

not all teens r interested in sex......it depends on the upbringing

Answer 9

Pop culture did it!! ppl now thinks its "cool"

Answer 10

I'm not,I've never even had sex.