I get so frustrated and annoyed inside everytime I think about the times he's disregarded my feelings. How do I get over it?
2006-07-10 12:09:55 · 6 answers · asked by Trixi Curious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously, when a person considers his/her feelings to be one of the most important things in her/his life, it is recognition and appreciation he/she is looking for.
Ignoring other's feelings is an insult to one's intelligence, at the same time to your sensitivity as a human being. He doesn't consider you to be a "thinking and feeling" person when he ignores your feelings.
There is no other way to get over the frustration, except to just think of unconditional love. Then you forgive him-- that's sacrifice.
But if you value yourself and your intelligence, then I think you should find someone who respects you and your feelings.
2006-07-10 12:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by stardustalpha2010 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are still with him, and I'm betting you are, you need to just spit it out and let him know how your feeling...it's the best thing to do . Pent up feelings only come through in resentment that tends to grow over time....don't put having a talk with him off. It's better to learn now if the two of you should remain together....although consider what you think he has disregarded in the way of your feelings....are you just nitpicking or do you have substantial complaints with him?? You most likely won't get over it totally unless the two of you come to some compromise. Relationships take constant work and to be truthful some people just don't have it in them to try, sad but true.
Good Luck to you!
2006-07-10 19:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not frustrated and annoyed with him. You're annoyed at yourself for tolerating this kind of behavior again and again. You want to forgive him? Get him to change? No. You want to change. You want to be able to forgive yourself.
Forgiveness requires repentance (sorrow for the hurt and an honest determination not to do so again). So, in the words of the church, repent! Stop allowing yourself to be treated this way.
Surprise surprise... the issue with "him" will go away, as will your hurt and frustration...
It's not about him. It's about you.
2006-07-10 19:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the guy he has done nothing except hurt you and even if you got back together he would slip back into his old habits and you'd be hurt and upsef all over again. How do you get over it? If get new people in your live your life time heals all wounds.
2006-07-10 19:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, I hope you are not still involved with him. If you are then you are asking the wrong question. If you are not, time can heal most wounds, just remember what he has lost.
2006-07-10 19:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either by getting revenge or trusting that the passage of time will make it better.
2006-07-10 19:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋