best mate also friends with my partner.met and done things with x partner,[very complicated she needed a friend] long story involves a a sexuall assault albeit along time ago and a abortion. [sexual assault done by now deadd[thankfully] person.but was a friend of mine. at the time.basically i feel i should give this person support but my present partner,as much as i lopve here doesnt undersand.any ideas.????????????/
2006-07-10 11:43:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your best friend would stand by you no matter what.. they would help you make it right when you're wrong.. stand by your friend only to help him make it right.. your partner should understand that your friend needs you.. i don't have to know everything about my bf but if you feel she would understand.. tell her the truth
2006-07-10 11:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to support a person or a friend but it depends what sort of support. if it's counselling this person needs & you're not a counceller then take them to one. in life we can be decieved with the word support. supporting someone & if that person really cares about you she or he wouldn't want any bad fibs in your own relationship. but if your partner is just a controlling person towards you then my dear follow your heart because at the end of the day you are the one that has to live with yourself. good luck
2006-07-10 18:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by 4leafclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...tell her she's wrong but don't leave her.she needs you during this times.don't argue with her,just be quiet.Silence does'nt mean you don't care it means i don't agree but i will not go on the way."Sometimes all a friend needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens." You need to tell this to your partner...hey be fair !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 23:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by angelica b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expect nothing from anyone
then you will never be disappointed
2006-07-10 18:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-10 18:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um . . .what
2006-07-10 18:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by woundshurtless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋