2006-07-10 11:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by gary m 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If everyone is in agreement that it's a casual relationship, then no, there's nothing wrong with it. Trouble is that people are frequently not honest with themselves or each other about what they want. Whether it's fair or not, you'll find some people say it's casual, then change their minds about what they want from you. Someone will get hurt, and while it's not your fault (you were up-front about it, after all) that doesn't mean you won't face consequences because of it. The consequences might be nothing worse than 10 phone calls a day. Or you might find yourself with a dangerous stalker (rare, but it happens). Or, and this happens far too often, a pregnancy will result. That's where you're wandering into "wrong" territory. It's just selfish and irresponsible to bring a child into the world under those circumstances. So have your fun, but YOU be the one to make sure an innocent baby doesn't have to pay for your jollies. Don't count on her to take care of birth control. After all, in a casual relationship you don't know her well enough to guess what's on her mind. Can you trust her? Maybe, maybe not. Don't take the risk. Be responsible, have fun, and when you're bored with the casual relationships (and someday you will be) THEN go ahead and have all the unprotected sex ya want, with your wife.
2006-07-10 12:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Is there anything wrong with being a whore if the man and the woman know it's casual? Get real and grow up!
2006-07-10 12:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by citizen ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, relationships are rarely casual for women. I think that just a rationalization for doing what you want when you want, and occasionally that's OK. But it doesn't last very long. Just because you start a one-page doesn't mean you'll going to end up their, and quite frequently somebody's feelings get hurt. In real relationships, the change people grow. Womanizer's are frequently people who don't want to grow up and take responsibility for their actions or their consequences. They just want to keep their options open a usually it's a catastrophe for the other person unless there's equally dippy.
2006-07-10 11:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you define as a womaniser? If you respect each other (I think it is the same for both sexes) and are honest with what you want then there is nothing wrong with being casual. If on the other hand, you do not respect the other person and use them or lead them on then I believe it is wrong.
2006-07-10 11:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
define " womanizer" if it is only "friendship" then no if it is all about sex, then read up on STDs and also do some reading about " genetic infertility" another item you might like to read is the number of people now being in Jail for infecting others with HIV the number continue to rise this is because now people are getting more serious about the dangers of " promiscuity and value of life" would you want some one to " cut your life short"? by the simple act of a " one night stand"? think about it some take better care of their cars and homes then they do of their bodies, would you eat in a home where all sorts of STDS Viral,bacterial and fungal infections are know to exist? what is more critical the places it you eat?? or the places you place you " dody organs? Something to think about " Mr Womanizer" ;-) Eagle
2006-07-10 11:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I guess everything is OK if between Consenting Adults.
Are you a charming womaniser? Do you make the woman feel really good? Do you give her a good time?
If so, it's OK. But there is another type of womaniser who hates women. That leaves a bad taste in the mouth and it is not OK.
2006-07-11 10:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no as long as all sides realise it's no strings attached. But your looking for a trouble as being a woman myself and knowing women you will find it damn hard to find a woman who will agree to that without being paid or like myself emotionally disturbed.
2006-07-10 12:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If condoms are used and everything is done honestly between 2 consenting adults... nothing is wrong with that.
Risking spreading disease by NOT using condoms and common sense IS wrong.
2006-07-10 16:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal whether the woman accepts it, or not. You can womanise all you want, but its the woman that decides whether to accept you. So, she has all the power. Had you not realised that?
2006-07-10 11:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not as long as both parties are aware that it is a good time relationship. You can never lead the girl on
2006-07-10 11:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋