I have this friend and I get jealous of her very easily and I get her pissed and she thretends to leave me and if she left me it would be horrible I would be unhappy for years she I get jealous for very very stupid reasons and then I end up competeing with her an example is she has her hair in a way that looks sooooooo cool and pretty and I put her down by saying you look popular when I mean to say you look great and I need help I need to stop doing that is there anyway you can help me get rid of this awful habbit.
2006-07-10 11:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
apologize to her n then talk to her about ure "bad habit" because mayhe she wont take offense to it once she understands
2006-07-10 11:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,good for your friend to put up with you for all this time. You don't blame her for if she left,because this would be your fault. You,need to think of you,at this present time. Why,do you feel the need to put people down? Why are you jealous? Do,you trust? You see,where I'm going. If,it was me I,wouldn't want to be around anybody with these traits,they are so draining on you. You,can only live for you,and not through somebody....good luck.
2006-07-10 11:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think it's not about your friend. it is about you and how you feel about yourself. maybe you didn't have a good up bringing with your parents. it sounds like with your friend not only have you got a friendship with her but you have put it upon yourself to make your relationship with your friend a big one. is she your mother and father and brother & sister all rolled in one. you have put her in this position & she can't live up to it. she only knows how to be a friend. she must care for you very much to put up with this so lighten up on your relationship with her and don't be so hard on yourself. start with building up your own identity by hobbys ,sports, reading, courses and you will feel much better within yourself.it does take time but start today & do it everyday. your friendship will then blossom as you will have more to give to your friend then taking all the time. good luck & you can do it.
2006-07-10 11:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by 4leafclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this friend has put up with you for a long time. I'd fix it or accept the consequences.
I kinda feel bad for your friend. How do you two end up being friends again everytime?!?!?!?!?!
2006-07-10 17:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by wierdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil
2006-07-10 11:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Noble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister thinks i am sooo pretty when she is the one with the guys.....she thinks she is sooo fat when she is skinny....she always wants to be like me and my other sister! and it drives me crazy! so i wouldnt blame ur friend for leaving u....u need to stop! ur habbit fast!
2006-07-10 11:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by kkk09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being an idiot, i don't know what else to tell you, you make the choice to behave the way you do and the only thing that can change it is YOU making different choices.
2006-07-10 11:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do not do that for ex that hair sttyle ask how she did that so you can do it for you or she is willing to do it for you
2006-07-10 11:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try walking backwards while moving your head from side to side.....he he
2006-07-10 11:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by G-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
medication and therapy soon
2006-07-10 11:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋