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ok i was with my ex for 2yrs and some change..we broke up for some months then started seeing eachother again...we dont get along..he complains a lot and i feel like i am dealing with a female..well he cannot seem to get over me and feels its my fault i love him and dont wanna see him hurting..what should i do?

2006-07-10 11:29:51 · 20 answers · asked by T.BUBBLE 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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You don't have a choice but to stay away from him. At least for a good time period. The reason I say this is the ONLY remedy to healing pain is TIME. You may be hurting him more by seeing him or communicating. Plus, he could get the wrong idea. You seem like a nice person and I know this may hurt you to do this because you obviously care about his feelings. But you will be doing him more good by distancing yourself. It's almost like enabling someone with an addiction. Think about it.

2006-07-10 11:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 3 0

First of all...have you tried counseling..if you both love each other? Sounds like there is some regret it isn't working out.

If that fails, and no one can change...then I would think the only way is to cut off all communications. You have to remove yourself totally from his life. You are not the only one at fault for it not working and you are not responsible for getting him past it. You aren't the one who can do that for him because you're the object of the issue. You can't help someone get over "you" unless you hurt him so bad he ends up hating you. No need for that. Just say good-bye and start your own new life.

2006-07-10 11:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0 0

I don't think that you should do anything. I broke up w/ my bf & it'll be 4 wks on Wed now :D I haven't had the urge to call him but he called ME on Fri or Sat !!! :@ It was late but I was out also, so he must figure that I just didn't wanna talk to him. I think that it might just make it harder for him to get over you if he saw you, let alone hear your voice. Break all contact w/ him. He'll get over you some day. I'm not over my ex but I know that I'm not gonna pick up the phone & give him a call... There's some stuff @ my place but I'm not gonna be the one to drop it off. I'll get my Mom or sis's to drop it off for me or I could go there late & night & leave the bag on his patio. Then again, he could be sitting there on his patio. You're not doing him any favors by sticking around. Good luck.

2006-07-10 11:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you stay away from him so he can get you out of his head, there is nothing else you can do, how is he supposed to forget you when he's with you? and if it didn't work out the first time why did you go back? that never does anybody any good. just make a clean break from the guy, trust me he'll get over you.

2006-07-10 11:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0 0

Sorry, you connot help him get over you. In fact he is going to hate you for a while. Then if he is a good person he will get over that and maybe you can be freinds. But don't count on it. Some guys cannot do that.

But don't try to help him that is not good for you.

2006-07-10 11:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by rickm913 2 · 0 0

you need to stay away because the more you are around him even in your mind as friends he is going to take is at he still has a chance and will never get over you give him time and space !

2006-07-10 11:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl805 2 · 0 0

Do the guy a favor and stay away from him. Out of sight, out of mind. With you setting him free and not seeing him anymore, perhaps he will be able to move on.

Good luck!

2006-07-10 11:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0 0

Allow him to have some space to heal. The best thing to do is to leave him alone for a while.

2006-07-10 11:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think that he's worth your friendship being without personality, as you say. Dump him right now and go for a really macho-type bf.

2006-07-10 11:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok, stop taking his calls -

leave him alone. You can not be just friends. that is a myth. it does not happen.

Just go off & live separate lives.

2006-07-10 11:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Winter_Decay 3 · 0 0

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