I am pregnant and he admitted he slept with another girl when we broke up and gave me a disease. I really care but I dont know if i can forgive him. Should I try to make it work for our child?
2006-07-10 11:22:00 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Break up with him. Have an abortion. Then seek treatment for the STD he gave you.
2006-07-10 12:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get treated first. That way you know you and the baby are safe. Now you need to realize that if he cheated on you one time, there is a good chance that he'll do it again. If you and him don't really get along well, then there is no use to putting a child through all that fighting. The child will be ok, as long as you raise him/her right. Think of it like this, the child won't miss anything they've never had. You now have a responsibility to make the best decisions for you and the child's future. You can't think just about yourself anymore. So think about the father very carefully. Do you think he's mature enough to be a good father and husband? If not, then don't waste your time. There are plenty of lonely guys out there who are willing to accept your child as one of their own. Think about all of this, then make a well informed decision. I wish you the best for you and your child.
2006-07-10 18:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it something you can pass to your child? First off, get treated...second off...if he slept with the other girl when you guys were technically broken up..then I don't believe you have a right to be mad at him. I mean, as Ross would say..*We were on a break!* lol...
I dont mean to make jokes, but i'm just saying..if you were broken up and he did this, and now you are back together then I dont think you can hold against him what he did while ya'll were broken up. If you want to raise a family with him then you need to move on and forget about it.
2006-07-10 18:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Bch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault, you should have had an abortion when you knew you were pregnant. Such scumbag of a bf does not deserve your friendship and future motherhood. Get a proper medical treatment before the poor fetus gets affected by the disease.
2006-07-10 18:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child can't save a relationship the adults both have to want to make it work. He doesn't care as much as he says if he would sleep around and bring something home to the one he supposedly loves.
2006-07-10 18:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by gegyloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get treated. Then decide whether you want this guy in your life, and whether you're ready to raise a child (with him or without him). If not, you either need to have an abortion, or put the child up for adoption.
2006-07-10 18:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should foregive him, and tell him that we shall not be together anymore, but he can be there for the baby sake. You only live once, he did once, he will do it again. Its is ok for you to care, but you have to think about about for right for you and for the baby as well. You have family and friends will work with you if you need a helping hand. You can make it... Good Luck with the baby....
2006-07-10 18:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by LIL RED DEVIL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl leave his ***, he doesn't respect u. but i'm so sorry to hear that. i hope that it did not affect the child
2006-07-10 18:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a check up, take some medicine and then dump him. its so easy!
2006-07-10 19:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by freakybitch11205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb.
2006-07-10 18:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by katezambelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋