2006-07-10 11:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by lover_gurl_42019 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thank you all justt wanna let you know it is not me I am 20 yrs old Just trying ot helpa young couple witha ? that they had they I thtink are too young but they wanna do this.
2006-07-10 11:49:52 · update #1
Unfortunatey in this case the parents are the decision makers until she is legally 18 in some states. Some of the adoption places pay money to people having kids. I could be wrong but I do know there are people who love to have kids and that would be a better option. Abortion is murder.
2006-07-10 11:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive. let her decrease back in because she remains a baby, and toddlers make blunders. in spite of the indisputable fact that, set up an truly agency set of guidelines before she enters, have her signal a written contract, understanding that if she breaks the contract she is decrease back out of the living house. Make her prepare dinner, sparkling, take care of the toddler, earn her keep by technique of helping with living house chores and/or operating a job. Make her artwork a job anyhow to help the toddler. let her understand you'll only be helping her at particular circumstances, and that you and her mom are not from now on babysitters. provide her a curfew and under no circumstances let her spend the nighttime away with out her toddler except there's a large reason and also you all have agreed in the previous. and so on and so on purely make positive she is conscious she's no longer coming living house to the ramada inn..... she's had a lot freedom already that implementing guidelines will be puzzling. purely lay each and everything out on the table in the previous, and let her quite ascertain what she needs to do. She'll cry and scream and throw a fit once you tell her the way it will be, yet oh properly.
2016-12-01 00:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better start talking girl, i had a friend who mom made her have an abortion at a young age and she almost lost her mind, because she really didn't want to do it, that is nothing to play with if you produced the baby out of love try to get them to make u take responsibility(whomever the person and the partner too!) you can't not know that could happen. both parents of the child have to relinquish their rights for adoption, the parents probably feel they r going to get stuck raising the kid, prove them wrong, good luck. and use protection please, we have enough young mother's who aren't raising their babies because they thought it was cool or fun to be pregnant, again hope it work out.
2006-07-10 11:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Roe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a mother of a 15 yr who has had a baby girl this last november. you can't make them do anything, my daughter was aware of my disappointment but she also knows i love her as well and her life has now changed for ever and i am proud to say my daughter is a good mother and is in school and will graduate on time and i have a beautiful granddaughter i love and would not of had if she decided to do a abortion or adoption
2006-07-10 11:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be the mother's choice no matter what. She knows whats best for her child, and if she wants adoption then that is what should happen. It's her responsibilty. You shouldn't kill innocent life. She got herself into this mess, now its her responsibility to get out of it in the most humane way possible.
2006-07-10 11:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Smile :) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the mother of the baby regardless the age, decides whether to have the baby or not. you can go with adoption if you wish. i encourage you to do so, abortion is like killing a human being.
2006-07-10 11:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweetaugust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the mother should deside what to do with the baby
2006-07-10 11:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by nana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever her age,SHE has the right to make the decision..
2006-07-10 12:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by rosie w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋