2006-07-10 10:41:38 · 16 answers · asked by Miranda C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
That is totally up to you. Just dont let him be the only one making the choice to try for another. If you arnt ready yet tell him Let him know how you feel.
2006-07-10 10:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by beaners 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remeber, a miscarriage is not the end of the world (though it may feel like it is). You should give your body ample time to physically heal (as well as emotionally). I have heard that doctors recommend at least 6 months after a miscarriage before trying to get pregnant again.
But if you are unsure, it is ok, and you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Especially if the reasons that you don't want to get pregnant again is because the father is not your husband, you don't want him to become your husband, or he is not willing to make the commitment of being your husband (along with the obvious you should be over 18 etc). Babies are a bigger commitment than marriage, so if your partner is not willing to make a level of commitment to you, then you should wait.
Honor your feelings right now, and gently remind your partner that he needs to honor them too. Explain that you understand that he suffered the loss with you, but it is different when the baby was inside you.
Don't give up. Take care.
2006-07-10 17:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by JessS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, i had a miscarriage too and i wanted a baby so bad but i found out i couldnt get pregnant again. i think you should take time and let ur body heal before you make that decision. you should talk to the babies father and say i dont know if i want to go through it again. tell him ur scared u may have another miscarriage. but hun please think about it because believe me if i could have another chance to concieve a baby i would. in a heart beat. but i can never have children and now all i have is my hubby and my step son
2006-07-10 19:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ann A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and let him know that you're not ready. Only you will know when the moment is right. I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a baby can be very emotionally and painful. I don't think anyone really gets over that kind of loss. You need time to recover and he needs to be able to understand that. God be with you.
2006-07-10 17:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready - then do not do it - it is your body and if you are not married to this man - whose to say he will be around for a decision that he made for you to have this baby 2-5-10 years form now - that you were not sure you were ready for.
2006-07-10 20:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..he sounds really sensitive. How do YOU feel? If you are not sure.....wait until you are sure. Most doctors recommend you give your body a break for 3 cycles before trying again.
2006-07-10 18:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by NancyO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you have had at least three periods for medical reasons. If you aren't sure you're ready to be a parent, don't let him force you. You'll regret it.
2006-07-10 19:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure then by God do not get pregnant again. Give yourself time to heal physically, emotionally, and mentally.
2006-07-10 17:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby67grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until both of you are ready. Talk about it and how it has affected you. You have to heal emotionally and physically first.
2006-07-17 16:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must love children but if your not exactly ready why don't have a discussion with him. Tell him if he minds waiting.
2006-07-10 17:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋