I am really beautiful and so many guys fall in love with me. Don't be jelous please I write this not for this!! I just wanted to tell that some of them love me more some less but those who love more and can do more to me are usually not handsome... I can't understand why then I always choose handsome guys (who actually love me too) instead of those who care about my feelings more? I just can't think a not handsome guy will be with me when I am so goodlooking. That's really very bad! Tell me how can I realize with my heart that looks doesn't matter at all!!!
2006-07-10 10:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget what everyone else says, beauty does matter, but not for long. Normally you have that instant physical attraction when you meet someone, which is normal, and doesn't make you shallow or narrow minded. It makes you human; and as a human being, you'll realize once you're with a person long enough, that no matter how beautiful the face, if it has not substance or personality to support it, it's not worth falling for. If you could find a combination of physical beauty and personality great, but remember when it comes time to slow down, you're gonna be lookin for that man to talk with, rub your feet, bring you home a chocolate shake when you're in the mood for that something you're not quite sure of, crack that silly joke that you least expect, or would pinch your butt to show you how much he appreciates your body. Don't ever lower your standards, but look for more in a man, and you'll be suprised with what it si you find
2006-07-10 10:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by amighty9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we are young we all want to be with that very good looking person, but as we get older we realize we can be happy with someone who isn't quite as good looking as we thought. The best thing you can do is not to create a standard when you date somebody, but just like them for who they are. Basically, when you first meet somebody don't bring a list with that with you with all the things you want or dont want, just see who they are first. At some point you will find the right guy for you. Looks are fletting, but companionship last forever.
2006-07-10 17:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to find someone who doesn't love u just because of your looks... find a penpal so u both know what each other look like... maybe you'll fall in love and when u meet.... it wont matter if he's handsome or not...
2006-07-10 17:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are good-looking guys that will care about your feelings too. you are shallow unfortunately... but many people are... its really hard to have a relationship without physical attraction... unless you can do something to be physically attracted to less handsome guys youre stuck.
2006-07-10 17:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said you pick the god look'n guy but not the guy who would always be there....... which would you rather want- a guy that would skip school to be with you on a sick day to do any thing you asked, or the guy who comes over for 2 hours might bring you a card or flowers and then's gone. It's not my place to say who, but it is YOUR'S.........
hope I helped you any???????
2006-07-10 17:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by D-fire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people do not "fall in love" with you, they lust after you and find you attractive so they like you...falliing in love is about your spirit, your personality, your intelligence, your humor and so much more...grow up a bit more and mature, you'll figure all this out soon enough...
2006-07-10 17:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...seriously if that person loves u it not b/c of ur looks that shouldn't really matter its what ur heart say and if its looks then its totally not love gurl....if u love someone its b/c they care for u and everything
2006-07-10 17:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by jayda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the not good looking boys a chance and see what will happen maybe some of them will give you what you want
2006-07-10 17:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by VolcanO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋