how does a doctor know when u had sex before? im only 13 and i had sex like 0ne month ago but my cherry did not pop i have not had sex since then my dad whants to make an appointment with the doctor i have only had sex once though can the doctor still find out im not a virgen?
2006-07-10 10:16:32 · 24 answers · asked by crazy_jenni2000 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but i dont think im preg. tho cause i'v gotten my period after i had sex
2006-07-10 10:41:23 · update #1
okay here it is-- everyone keeps saying "you're busted you're busted" but really-- you may not be. i'm sure ppl telling you that is making you even MORE nervous and i'm sorry for that. doctor's CAN tell if you've had sex before, and if they do ask you, DO tell the truth. but there is patient-doctor confidentiality. even though you're a minor, it still pertains. tell him not too tell your father, and he shouldn't, but he'll encourage YOU to talk to your father about it and talk about the options you have if you want to stay sexually active.
just be really careful out their hun. i've been in your situation before but mine well-- was also a little differnent, and became to the point where my mom HAD to know. you're too young-- and i'm not saying that too put you down, but because you really ought to be safe. @ least wait a while longer before really becoming sexually active okay? believe me, you'll feel a lot better and less stressed. i hope that helped you. good luck!!
2006-07-10 10:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by jetters007 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Only if he does a vaginal exam and even then it's not 100% because a number of things can "pop your cherry" such as horse back riding and riding a banana seat bike. Talk to your dad about why he feels you need to go to the Dr. Maybe he's concerned about something else, or maybe he wants to make sure that you are protected from STD's and pregnancy. At thirteen someone shouldn't be having sex, there are way too many things out there that can hurt you, including guys!!! I know it's a little late know but if you are this freaked out thinking your dad's gonna find out you've had sex, imagine what it would be like if you were afraid he'd find out you were pregnant. Sorry for preaching but you've got so much to look forward to in life. Don't let sex screw it up!!!
2006-07-10 10:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you should have been more concerned about what could happen BEFORE you had sex at 13!!! You know the saying if your going to play you have to pay?
Well is time to pay!!
Yes the doctor can tell & just because you had a period dosnt mean your not pregnet.
2006-07-10 13:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by deerwatcher05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at 13 I don't think the doc is going to do an examination "down there" but if they do they can't tell anyone- it's confidential. Te doc legally can't even tell your parents, and you could talk to them about anything. So don't worry. It's fine. Just make sure you use protection if you choose to have sex again!
2006-07-10 10:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 and a child so your parents have the right to take you to the doctor and the doctor can and will tell your parents. You are in trouble now.
2006-07-11 01:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats got to be tough the doctor can find out by giving you this test its easy but its over 99% accurate.
If u had sex a year ago the doctor will find out. I feel so srry 4 u!
2006-07-10 10:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex at that age.
Having said that...for the purpose of a visual exam, there are other means some women use for simulating penetration. Could you have "experimented" a little?
I'll say no more.
2006-07-10 10:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if there is any signs of healed laserration in ur vagina or any other sign of penitration in there. and by the way just cause someone dont have a cherry does not mean thay are not a vergin docs cant go by that just means that the girl plays with her self
2006-07-10 10:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doctor can tell if you had sex before or not.but its called a papsmear.your doctor will ask you if you had sex or not.you should tell him you did so you can get the papsmear done.you never know what might be wrong up inside you,thats why they ask you then they do the papsmear to see if theres anything out of place,torn,ripe,broke,and etc...
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