If your in a long term relationship and your man is tired and not in the mood for sex but you are and you get him hard up. Do you think he would just roll over and bark at you or not be able to resist and give in?
2006-07-10 10:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by lttlbt22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been there. My husband is a freak in the bedroom, but there are sometimes, where he just doesn't want to bec. he is tired, actually I wake up in the middle of the night with him next to me and doing some things, but he was actually dreaming. LOL It happens, I know bec. my sex drive is so low. It has nothing to do with him, it's just that I am stressed, tired, etc. Once in a long term relationship, most of the time the sex dwindles. But don't fret, you might want to set up a romantic night for just the two of you, or talk dirty to each other all day..that works as great foreplay. You can even do fantasy play, like dress up. You have to spice up things and keep it that way. If you do some of those things, you may be surprised to how he comes around.
2006-07-10 10:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have a man...you have a geezer or something you're living with, at least part time...more than likely it is never about how you look, there might be something in his own "self-opinion" that he is beating himself up with...usually feelings of inadequacy in more than just physical things can do this or depression or he is screwing around and already spent...it can happen in this day and age...but you seem like a loving and nice partner many men would be grateful to have in their life...maybe too, this long term relationship has gotten more convenient than meaningful and special for him..you have reached a "taken for granted" stage in the whole thing and there is no sizzle on the steak, but even new pussy is just a run off to the same ole thang after a while...communication overall is probably a big problem too...as the song goes, "everything is everything"..and anything less, sucks...
2006-07-10 17:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by longwalkjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how tired he is, if he's hard, and lying on his back, and you climb on and do all the work, I don't see he has a lot to complain about.
If he does complain, I suggest you try the "Oh my poor honey, you must be so tired, you just lie there and go to sleep, and I'll lie on the other side of the bed and finish myself off, no need for you to wake up, I can handle it" approach, then finger yourself wildly, while failing to quite suppress your moans and writhing. He'll be all over you inside 5 minutes.
2006-07-10 17:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is a bad thing. It can effect the mans sex drive. But it would be a benifit for him and a moral booster to know his partners loves him, finds him attractive, and desirable. Don't let him turn over, growl and sink deeper into depression.
Your attention will be good for him, and a better mind set will help him when interviewing.
So keep after him, make sure he knows he's needed by you. That will help him.
2006-07-10 17:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get him hard he is going to want to. Although I must admit I wanted to but I still fell asleep. However she quit when I first fell asleep if she would have kept trying I'd have been right there. Frankly it is getting him hard is when he might bark alittle. A sure fire method for my mate is she gets naked and then goes down on me, I'd be in the mood real fast.
2006-07-10 17:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by rickm913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he would no be able to resist and give in. That's how all guys are. My boyfriend had been up for almost 24 hours, nearly falling asleep and I still got him to do it. They're so easy like that.
2006-07-10 17:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once its hard its good to go. I have never had a guy say he wasn't in the mood though except one time and he was only doing that to prove some stupid point.
2006-07-10 17:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe most men would have sex with you. It might not be good for you.But he have you off his back.I suspect he is bored with you or with sex.Try to remember what attracted him to you in the first place.Maybe you need a make over. Or try making him more comfortable when he comes home. He might be stressed out from work. Any rate you need to change to be more sexy to him Good luck
2006-07-10 17:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by shyknight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there's a guy on earth who would be able to simply turn over and go to sleep after he's been aroused. I could be wrong, but I don't think he'd get to sleep any time soon! :)
2006-07-10 17:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends..maybe he's just not as in 2 it
but most men would give in...if he doesn't...he either must b really tired or gay-i'm serious about the gay part..now adays u never kno
2006-07-10 17:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋