ok, i was with this guy for about a year. we broke up and i deleted every thing. I let him go. this year on new years eve, he called me out of the blue and we got together. (spent the new year together) it was fun and all but I went my way he went his. and again I deleted his number. in april we got to together again. and again I did the same thing. last month he called me again. what is it?? I keep letting this guy go but he keeps coming back. and he comes back when im at my lowest. is this a sign that this is the guy?? or what??? i dont get it!?!?!? and i know it cant be the sex not saying that im bad at it or anything but come on you can get it any where. so you tell me??
2006-07-10 09:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG i was in a similar situation!! Its been going on for about three years now. Personally in my opinion it means that there is something there and that in some way you both are meant for each other. I would explain more but itz kinda hard...
2006-07-10 09:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by RockStar Princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I completely disagree with the first answer. I'd be willing to bet he's coming back when he's in between girlfriends. Why look for someone else when he knows he's got an ex he can use for sex?? If he really wanted a relationship, he wouldn't wait so long between calls. Don't sleep with him the next couple times he calls you, see if he calls back after that. Then you'll know for sure.
2006-07-10 10:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you would be an emotional wreck from this guy treating you like a yo-yo. He keeps coming back into your life because you allow him to. If you enjoy being treated this way then best wishes for you. Otherwise tell him to crap or get off the pot. And you get someone that treats you better.
2006-07-10 10:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex husband did that to me over and over again. finally you'll get sick enough of it all. it took me 3 yrs. it'll take a while, but when enuf is enuf, ull stop. and with me, he kept coming back for a month here, leaving me torrn for 6months after. i got over him, and then he came back into my life again. it's just using u is all it is no matter what he may tell you.
2006-07-10 09:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋