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Question

I dated a girl for 4 years about 6years ago. Since weve still been good friends. I still feel for her but she said she moved on however we have times where we click so well it seems she might feel the same. I feel she may be denying it because we were both hurt back then. Putting yourself in similar shoes as her, what am I to do?

Answer 1

You can not read her mind we women tend to feel many differ ant things depending on our moods,hormones ect... But if she is for you and the two of you are meant to be then in time she will realize this and come around, although do not read into anything you do not understand, Some people tend to play games including us women but continue to be up front that means honest with her, LOVE IS PATIENT and LONG SUFFERING. One thing about us women when you HURT us and we really had feelings for ya IT IS SO HARD TO TRUST/LOVE AGAIN Just give her time. Hey sweettoni37 hopes it works out for ya, I am a hopeless romantic I feel everyone should be loved by someone that really loves/cares for them it is such a great feeling.

Answer 2

Is whatever caused you both hurt in the past something that is likely to still be an issue? Trying to get back together could be a risk to your friendship, but if you think it's worth that risk, during one of those times when you seem to "click", look at her straight in the eyes, and ask her if she's sure she's moved on, and if she isn't, take it from there. If she says she doesn't want to get back together, just say: "Ok, then let's just continue on as we are, because I really enjoy your friendship too".

Answer 3

It has been a while, I think u should move on, she has. You two sound like u have a good friendship I would leave it at that. If she wanted more she would let u know. If she was hurt before she is over it now there has been enough time passed to let hurt feelings go. Jut remain Friends.

Answer 4

I don't know. I think it would be best to just cut her out of your life. Iknow it is hard, but after the first few weeks it may get better. However I don't really feel better, that is just what everyone tells me. I am facing kinda the same thing only I'm the female and he is the one who "says" hes moved on? What do I do?

Answer 5

Always try to be there for her without ANY pressure. She probably does still have feelings for you and in time she may come to admit them so be patient but get on with your life as well in the meantime

Answer 6

You should be a good friend to her, but nothing more, unless she says anything to you about it.
Tell her how you feel if you really feel the urge to let her know, and if she doesn't feel the same, then she doesn't feel the same. Don't push it, and be the best friend you can be to her.

Answer 7

If you are ready to NOT hurt her again...ask her if she feels the same. But if it works out and you hurt her again. You can forget about everything, even the friendship.

Answer 8

sweep her off of her feet, be a hopeless romantic, send love notes, put flowers on her car, send her on a treasure hunt by leaving clues to the next clue finally ending up at a jewelry store to pick up a necklace or something she will love.

tell her you dont want to live without her.

Answer 9

You could ask her how she feels and lose a friend, or you could ask her how she feels and gain the person you're supposed to be with.

Answer 10

continue to be good friends b/c oyu dont want to push it and loose that to. just be happy that she still accepts to be around you because most couples dont talk much after breaking up. count your lucky stars!