My thoughts are that it shouldn't be used a method of birth control. If the girl gets pregnant because of birth control failure or if she is raped, then it is ok. I hate it when people say "oh think about the fetus" when the fetus isn't even smart enough to realize what the heck is going on. People act like it is no big deal to raise a kid. If you can't give the baby your all, then don't have it. I had an abortion due to birth control failure, I guess I was the .1% or something, I KNOW that I did the right thing, because I was taking precautions. And I have no regrets, or mental problems what so ever. It has changed my perspective on life completely, and even though it was birth control failure, I am not having sex again until I am married. Abortion is something that can make, or break you. When I was at the clinic, there were these girls laughing and chatting like it was a ******* beauty salon. Then they joked "This is just like the 10 minute oil change". It made me sick that I knew I was doing the right thing, but I was in a room of at least 30 women getting ready to have one that didn't seem to have a care in the world about what they we're about to do. Do I miss it? Yes I do, but I couldn't of gave my baby my all, so I didn't have it.
2006-07-10 09:33:31
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answered by Goodbye 5
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My thoughts on abortion are I against it but that's my opinion. If I were asked by someone I know I would advise them against it. If you're willing to take the chance and not use protection I think you should have the baby. There is always some couple out there who really want a baby and can't conceive. You being the person pregnant could make those dreams come true. If you decide that you don't want to give the baby up you still have the option to keep the baby. If you just destroy the innocent life that is growing with in you, you'll never know what could of been. I'm a mother of three and have one on the way. I could never have an abortion. Although if going through with the pregnancy is a risk to your life you got to do what you've got to do. I guess it all depends.
2006-07-10 12:16:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Unless impregnated by rape, or a serious threat to the mother's life, abortion should be illegal. You know the consequences before you have sex, so you should deal with the outcome if it happens. THIS APPLIES TO BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. The choice has already been made at that point - just as you cannot commit a crime, decide you should not have done it, and expect to be excused. Furthermore, if a man does not pay child support, he is a deadbeat. If a woman chooses to have an abortion, that is her right? How hypocritical is that? What if the man wants the baby, but the mother doesn't? Both need to be responsible for their actions. If you are not ready for the responsibility, just say "No" - THAT is your choice.
2006-07-10 09:43:40
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answered by clone1973 5
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Its Wrong!... Read This Story >>>
Month One
Mommy
I am only 8 inches long
but I have all my organs.
I love the sound of your voice.
Every time I hear it
I wave my arms and legs.
The sound of your heart beat
is my favorite lullaby.
Month Two
Mommy
today I learned how to suck my thumb.
If you could see me
you could definitely tell that I am a baby.
I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though.
It is so nice and warm in here.
Month Three
You know what Mommy
I'm a boy!!
I hope that makes you happy.
I always want you to be happy.
I don't like it when you cry.
You sound so sad.
It makes me sad too
and I cry with you even though
you can't hear me.
Month Four
Mommy
my hair is starting to grow.
It is very short and fine
but I will have a lot of it.
I spend a lot of my time exercising.
I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes
and stretch my arms and legs.
I am becoming quite good at it too.
Month Five
You went to the doctor today.
Mommy, he lied to you.
He said that I'm not a baby.
I am a baby Mommy, your baby.
I think and feel.
Mommy, what's abortion?
Month Six
I can hear that doctor again.
I don't like him.
He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home.
The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy what is it? It burns!
Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it!
Mommy! HELP me!
Month Seven
Mommy
I am okay.
I am in Jesus's arms.
He is holding me.
He told me about abortion.
Why didn't you want me Mommy?
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.
NOW WHAT DO U THINK??
2006-07-10 10:13:59
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answered by Anonymous
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not for birth control purposes...but If the mother does not want to take care of the child or can't then I think it is a good idea...I know plenty of child abuse cases that go on because the parent did not want the child and ends up killing the kid or abusing the kid
I just would like all the abortion clinic protesters that stand out side with their signs daily...live one day in the life of an unwanted child and see the pain they live with...this pain lasts a lifetime...if your parents don't want you then you really don't have any want to be alive...and adoption is not always the answer...there are a lot of kids in foster care that are abused also
I do agree that if an abortion is performed the abortion pill should be the first used, then if it is too far along a abortion should be performed before the baby becomes too old...partial birth abortions are murder if you ask me
2006-07-10 09:37:15
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answered by USuck79 4
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Rights to abortion should be equally enforced with responsibility on both the father and mother. It is easy to make a baby happen, it is a far different thing to care for and raise a baby and even for some people to stay healthy while having a baby. More and more effort needs to go into the "unplanned" pregnancies for which there should only be a medical threat rider to the mother to allow...in the case of rape, 100% abortion...second thoughts and I just don't want it should come with a second degree manslaughter charge.
2006-07-10 09:32:08
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answered by longwalkjohn 2
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My thoughts on abortions are mutual. I think that they are wrong. I believe it is murder to someone who is unborn yet. But at the same time it is the mother's descision. I'm not going to get into political statements here. I'm just saying that I don't like it, I will NEVER have an abortion, but I don't think it is totally wrong. Because like someone on here said a girl the age of ten years old got RAPED. She was forced to have the baby of a rapist. I don't think that is right. So that's the only time I think you should get an abortion.
2006-07-10 10:16:58
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answered by Anonymous
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do not do it if u do u r known as a murderer u neva seen or heard the song a long time ago by nick cannon where tatyanna ali goes to the gynacologist when shes pregnant and nick cannon is an angel goes in her and runs away and she has the baby think bout the life once that egg grows girl its heart is beating and GODs life is wasting over abortion think about those little angels that can change yourlife 4ever ppl r married couples some cant even have kids they begging GOD like crazy
when they hear someone has aborted a baby so its a bad dddevilish thought to think bout
2006-07-10 10:01:58
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answered by tiff4elmo 2
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I think you should be able to chose I see both sides of it I was 21 pregnant after being raped and told my mom and that was her answer the look alone she gave me could have killed me.I regret it but a man dosen't have the pressure of it like we as women do. I also under satnd the other side there is other alternatives to it adoption and such. You know some cultures abort the fetus if it is not the sex they want. If you are to have one do it as soon as possible I don't think they should be done after 10-12 weeks, but I still think a woman should have the right to choose there are so many unwanted kids today being neglected and killed by their parents so how does that seem right what if you are raped do you really want to be reminded of that day after day????? And yes I have kids 3 beautiful ones. I don';t think it should be used as birth control.
2006-07-10 09:34:20
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answered by life as we know it 4
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Everyone has the right to do what they believe is the best for themselves. Having unwanted children in this world is a sin because the parents that have these unwanted children don't care for the children and only the poor defenseless children suffer. Children don't ask to be brought into this world and shouldn't be unless they will be going to a loving family that wants them from their conception! If someone thinks an abortion is the best for them then they have the right to have one.
2006-07-10 09:35:44
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answered by Sue 5
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