2006-07-10 09:16:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nobody can take your friends away, your real, true friends, that is. I know the jealousy part is hard to deal with, perhaps your jealousy is what is causing these friends to move away from you? Jealousy serves no positive purpose in our lives. It won't get you anywhere to be jealous. You'll have to just "decide" not to be jealous, change your perspective and I bet your "friends" come back to you!
2006-07-10 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"of whom you're jealous" - but close. I appriciate your use of "whom". Very good.
One of life's difficult truths is that friends arn't forever. If your friends are drifting away, either you're changing, or they are. It's not a bad thing, though it may hurt right now.
You will lose and gain many people in your life. The people you should be friends with are the people who fit in with the person you are now. You're not the same person you were when you made those friends, you may not need them any more.
Start seeing the other people around you. Mabie there's a girl in one of your classes who's got a great sense of humor whom you'd like to know better. Mabie you're really into the environment and would get along with the kids in your school's environmental club. Look into things like that.
I'm not saying to stop talking to your old friends, but if you're growing apart, you may just need to accept thant and move on.
The part I'd worry more about is the girl you feel jealous of. Jealousy is a cruel emotion. Find out why you feel jealous. Is it because she has money and buys her friends? Decide you don't respect that trait, and decide never to be like that. Is it because she has loads of self-confidence? Work on getting some yourself. Join the Girl Scouts or your church's youth group, or do community service: tutor a younger student or visit nursing homes. When you can feel proud in your own accomplishments, and when other people depend on you or look up to you, you'll gain that same self-confidence.
Becoming your own person is not easy. It means putting yourself out there. You may get teased or rejected. But for every time you fail, another time you'll succeed.
Learning who you are when you're young will save you from having to do it when you're older. Those fickle, cliquey girls who follow others like sheep will find out one day, too.
And once you're done with this, the people who are really your friends still will be, and the people who wern't won't matter to you any more.
2006-07-10 17:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i know just how you feel. I was like that last year yes i have to say it is hard at first, but soon you might find good friends that are true to there word. I mean, well things could work out that way. I hope things are better for you then they were for me.
2006-07-10 16:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by *~*Bubbles*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if they really where ur friends no one could take them away.second why r u jealous of someone who cares what they have n u do not.ur making an *** out of urself 4 nothing.
2006-07-10 16:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her friends and make her life a living hell
2006-07-10 16:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by roger s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her ***!
2006-07-10 16:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋