MY FRIEND NEEDS AND ANSWER .
THANKS YALL
2006-07-10 09:16:18 · 9 answers · asked by TiFFANY90210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I stay at my bf's appartment some of the time, and I have a good bit of my stuff down there ( both clothes and things that I'd bought for when I got my own place, like pots and pans, a dresser, etc.) He also has some things at my house.
I'm very much a non-confrontational person and I love him so it would be really hard if he were to be unfaithful.
I would go to the appartment while he was at work, Take whats mine, set his things on the bed, and leave the key and a note to drop my house keys in our mailbox, and nothing more.
I would be angry. Seeing him wouldn't help, talking wouldn't help. If someone will cheat once, they'll do it again, and I couldn't get past that broken trust, especially since I know he's been on the recieving end of it before he met me.
But I really can't see him doing that to me.... so I don't think about it.
As for what your friend should do, she should take this as an oportunity to see the guy for what he really is and get out!!
2006-07-10 09:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to leave him if that's the case. He'll just do it again. Tell her to hold onto her self-respect and take it with her out the door. Sticking around will only tell him she's a door mat he can wipe his feet all over. She'll be better off without him.
2006-07-10 16:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetely give him the boot! If you can find it in your heart to forgive him and you believe he never will again- I guess you could always try it. BUT once u forgive him you cannot throw it in his face 30 times a day either! I would never be able to forget!!! So for me- Id definetely have to move on!
2006-07-10 16:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave. Don't bother to talk it out. When someone cheats on you, it's because they don't value the realtionship, themself or their partner. It's something that you will never forget. You will always be looking over your shoulder. Find someone worthy.
2006-07-10 16:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a better boyfriend
2006-07-10 16:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by gusgus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant say what you are going to do until you are in the situation yourself. Its easy to say what you would do if it hasnt happened.
2006-07-10 16:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by agraat23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if u let him get away with the frist one he'll do it again
2006-07-10 16:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by KelLzZz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
2006-07-10 16:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his butt and move on...
2006-07-10 16:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋