I love going i just get so shy. I'm sure alcohol would help but i'm pregnant, I can't drink. I just want to be able to have more fun without being so shy!
2006-07-10 09:12:06 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to give yourself some time to feel comfortable. It may take several visits to get to know the people there and to start to feel at home there. One thing you don't mention is what is it that makes you feel so shy when you are there? Usually there is a specific issue that you simply need to talk about or look at dealing with.
2006-07-10 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he takes you to the strip club where only women strip, maybe you should find a place that has both Male & Female strippers. See if he gets shy/embarrassed about that. If he does maybe you guys should keep your Fantasies at home, You strip for Him & He for You, get Adventurous.
2006-07-10 16:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by ead824 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take some time and figure it out yourself. I don't think that it is wise to go to the club since you are pregnant, since your moods will be a bit up & down. But let your boyfriend have eyes only for you!!! Cause I'm sure you're attractive and hott, otherwise he won't be with you!!!
2006-07-10 16:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMMMMM thats a new one ! I would HATE going especially with my man! Id say just enjoy the music, the show, and let loose and be YOU! Enjoy yourself and dont worry about what anyone else thinks! Have a great time being YOU!
2006-07-10 16:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. I went to one with my husband before we were married but I knew a guy that worked there doing the lights so I talked to him and that helped. Maybe try getting to know one of the girls there that you can talk to and give a group lap dance together with.
2006-07-10 16:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to imagine those girls as girls just like you, but think of how much easier their job is if you get into the show. They have to show up and show off all of their body and all you have to do is enjoy it. So loosen up for them, not for yourself.
2006-07-10 16:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Badger25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stip club will tear your relationship apart even with both of you there....eventually...... I would find somthing else to enjoy as a couple.
2006-07-10 16:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna say get on stage and dance for him, but that pregnant thing might put a damper on that idea.
2006-07-10 16:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vulcanize the whoopie stick in the ham wallet.
2006-07-10 16:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by TKO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess join in on the fun or when he gets home ask him what type of clotes would he like to see you in and then you make a makeshift stage and dance for him
2006-07-10 16:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋