My Husband has been acting really shady lately.. he is home with me all thru the week but sometimes on the weekends he likes to take off and go to bars to have his "cave" time alone, also we dont have sex as often as we used to? does anyone know the signs to watch out for?????
2006-07-10 08:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well secondly, we really havent been having problems... one time we argued he called all these sex line phone numbers to chat and then lied to me that he didnt talk at all and its on the phone bill for 45 minutes.... I dont know what to do?
2006-07-10 11:59:57 · update #1
Are those ligit reasons to leave him and get a divorce? Because some people consider their significant other calling those lines as cheating.
2006-07-10 12:18:10 · update #2
usally your instincts are corect
2006-07-10 09:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple fact is your marriage is in trouble. Even if your husband isn't cheating on you, the fact that you feel neglected and that you suspect he might be cheating is evidence that your marriage is in trouble. Seek professional counseling now both for yourself and for the two of you as a couple.
As to the question of whether he actually is cheating on you or not, statistics would suggest that if you suspect he is cheating on you, there is an 80%+ probability that he is. The two of you need to get some counseling. Now.
Try to avoid heartache and melodrama. As much as you love him, no matter what the problem is in your relationship and no matter what the outcome of these problems, both of you will survive. And, whether your marriage survives or not, the two of you can behave with civility and kindness towards one another. But, for this moment, seek counselling. A professional counselor will have much better advice for you than anyone you could ask online.
2006-07-10 09:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say if you have been having problems for a while or anything like that but i would say that if you think he is cheating then he might be your instincts are never wrong i had a feeling that my husband was cheating and i found out it was true your gut feeling tells you that something is not right i hope things work out for you as i know that it can be a very stressfull time.
2006-07-10 11:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he uses anger at all to put you off or makes any sort of accusations that you are cheating. These are two for sure signs he is a cheat. Good luck!
2006-07-10 09:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Go with your insticts!!! If you think he is cheating he probably is. Check his cellphone calls incoming & outgoing, verify the numbers yourself. You can easily check reverse lookups on-line at Yahoo & infospace. You put the phone numbers in and they bring up the names & addresses of the people they are registered to. (Cellphone numbers are not listed) Be discreet about it though. There are signs: but you mentioned some already. Don't panic though. I hope your husband is alot easier to talk to than mine was. Put him in his place & set the record straight you will NOT put up with infidelitiy Then call those Witch(es) and set them straight. But don't sit home waiting for him, go out when he goes out. He will be like Where are you going tell him you are going with the girls. But please don't degrade yourself and do anything that you suspect him of doing it will only make matters worse & you will feel better later if you don't go in that direction. Good Luck & God Bless.
2006-07-10 09:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spy on him thats what i would do but my husband has cheated on i know cuz i caught him i finish work before him and sometime i would go and vist with him at his office but one day when i walked in i seen him making love with another woman i was so mad but to know ur husband is cheat u have around in his stuff cuz if he is there maybe clues in his stuff and next time when he goes to the bar if u have 2 diffrent cars as soon as he leave u get into ur car and try to fellow him if u loss him and if u know what bars he goes to try going passed them and if his car or truck is there than u go and park some where he cant c it than go in side quiet and than u can c if there is another woman there with him.
2006-07-10 10:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by jennyhoney37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you will have a gut feeling and in my experience is rarily ever wrong
2. is he buying new clothes, especially underclothes
3. new cologne
4. bathing more often or at odd times
5. more toothbrushing, more use of breathmints and gum
6. not let u see his cell fone, email things like that
ever thought of following him to these bars and seeing for yourself what he's doing? could have a friend do this for you.
good luck
2006-07-10 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by nativeamerican1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey
follow your instincts if you belive he is cheating then most likley he is. Ask if you can go to the bar with him. if he is coming home late and is not in the mood be stright up let him know your having
doubts and that he is giving THE REASONS FOR DOUBTING.
Good luck
2006-07-10 09:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Elida S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your womens intuition! obviously, you just anwsered your own question! look at all the facts that you placed in your question! youre husband is up to something!
2006-07-10 09:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he is, you are probably right,
2006-07-10 09:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by chef spicey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋