I’m close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her 3 weeks ago. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. But over the course of the last 3 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled together intimately a lot. I would say we act as boyfriend and girlfriend.
She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. She wants to hang out together each day. She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours. She says she wants to meet my family.
She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by her last two boyfriends not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again. She still talks a lot about her last boyfriend who hurt her badly – Basically used her and then suddenly stopped all contact with her without explanation!
Does she even like me? Am I being played for a fool and don’t see it? Help please I'm really confused!
2006-07-10 08:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that she definitely likes you if she is hugging, kissing, and calling you all hours of the day. She sure is sending mixed messages though, huh? I would let her know that from where you are from, friends don't cuddle and kiss like that and that if she wants to be friends then she needs to stop all of that because it is sending you mixed messages and it isn't fair to you since you confessed how you feel to her. Just my two cents. Good luck.
2006-07-10 09:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 04:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is scared of relationships, but she seems to cherish your friendship a great deal. Just go with the flow and enjoy her attention. She likes the attention she is getting from you. From what you write, it will be moving down the relationship road in no time.
2006-07-10 09:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best relationships are friends first.... believe me ..me and my boyfriend were just friends for over a year before we did anything romantically. we did the phone thing like you said, went everywhere together etc...she likes you and wants this to be the right thing... there is no need to rush anything... if its meant to be it will... be patient..i had to, and it worked out! .... good luck!
2006-07-10 08:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start acting like she is nothing but just a booty call...act like you are seeing other gals....things are gonna change real fast. If it doesn't ...don't be a emotional tampon and let her use U. Move on bro.
2006-07-10 09:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by FORD on FIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes you on some level...but sounds like she is guarding herself and her feelings....Since she has been hurt you probably wants to be extra careful in another relationship...so try to give it time and don't pressure her...that will push her away...be there for her...I hopwe that I have helped in some way...GOOD LUCK
2006-07-10 09:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by armywife327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋