He was writing her, telling her about our sex life. I read a few and he is not interested in her, at least not according to his e-mails. He said he just likes to share his experiences with her. He used to do this with me. I am furious that she knows our sex life, that is personal. I am not worried about him cheating or leaving because we have a great life and sex life. But what do I do about him spilling our personal lives? I have already confronted them both BTW.
2006-07-10 08:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by downsouthcpl2932 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him it bothers the hell outta you and demand he stop doing it otherwise your sex life wont continue to be great and then he wont have anything to tell her! That should at least make him stop and think. Or get a guy friend and do the same thing and see how he likes it.
2006-07-10 08:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this - but a great sex life and marriage does not mean your husband can't be cheating. My ex was cheating with a co-worker. I trusted him so completely (after 24 years of being together) that I wasn't even suspicious when she would call our house. We even went out together as two married couples and I baby sat her kids! The night before her husband found out and the ___t hit the fan - my husband and I had gone out dancing and had great sex when we came home. Between me and her - the poor guy must have been exhausted! I would be suspicious if I were you. Start being more alert to other signs such as unaccounted for money, receipts or charges on you credit cards, increased time at work etc. These were all things I missed. Hindsight is twenty-twenty. Just be on your toes. If he is not cheating - sounds like the potential is there. Sorry to not be more encouraging.
2006-07-10 08:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I learned about marriage is that there is an unwritten rule about talking about personal things with other people. I make a note to know how much my hubby tells other people about our lives. He's very good about keeping personal things with only a few friends, which of whom I know. We had talked about this issue when we first started dating. Friends can get nosy and want to know things about each other. Unless you are comfortable with it, I don't think it's right to tell anyone else about it. Perhaps he just wanted to hear a girl's opinion? Maybe explain to him how much it bothers you, men can be dense about things like that. YOu have to spell it out for them.
2006-07-10 08:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a pal who had a dishonest spouse. She of direction lied about it. He contacted the different guy. of direction he denied it too. yet interior the full it become all authentic. there will be an off hazard this isn't, yet you do not make up a narrative about having an affair to make somebody else fell extra acceptable. odds are he's overlaying his tracks, and she or he's too.
2016-10-14 07:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by hinshaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was just being stupid and he is a grown up he'll stop.
I believe marriages should practice the sunshine rule, in other words one should let their spouse check emails, web sites and phone records. If he's a man he'll stop all contact with her.
You let him know, if he crosses the line again, DUMP HIM!
2006-07-10 08:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like even tho you are happy, he is beginning to have feelings of wandering, not that he has yet...but he is thinking about it. If he was content he would not be talking sex to a co-worker
2006-07-10 08:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u confront him again n again he will not be answerable 2 u.. so just chill up and ask hm th ereason for the same
2006-07-10 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that, this is completely unexceptable!
I would feel completely betrayed. That is no one elses business ESPECIALLY a co-workers!
2006-07-10 08:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by lizzy*lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't bother me if thats all he is doing it could be alot worse. but if it bothers you then take it to the next level.
2006-07-12 11:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋