So this guy had feelings toward me this year and I ended up feeling the same way towards him...and everything was fine until this summer. I called him once and we talked for a pretty long time, and then I called him while he was asleep and I told him I'd call back later. I called later to invite him to a movie (4 calls; he didn't answer any of them).
So later I e-mailed him and said sorry for all the calls. He never replied. Three weeks later I sent him another message...and he didn't reply that, either. I commented on his myspace 3 days later. It's now been almost 2 weeks and he hasn't replied me. But he has replied a comment my friend (a girl) left him. What do you think is going through his head? What should I do? Does he still have feelings for me?
2006-07-10 08:12:49 · 13 answers · asked by Oink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if this is a guy that you've just started to establish a relationship with, calling him constantly or trying to get a hold of him in any way possibly probably isn't the best idea. You may come off as a little desperate or attached, and he may not like that. You might have scared him away, and he's trying to get you to back away by ignoring you. My suggestion is to lay off trying to contact him and just do your normal everyday thing. If he decides he's ready to talk, he will. If not, find someone new. It's not worth the stress or worry if he doesn't care to call you back.
2006-07-10 08:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty clear that this guy is not interested in you anymore but don't feel to bad about him because the way he treats you by not letting you know anything shows that he isn't worthy of you. If he were a real man he would be honest and respectful and he would let you know what is going on.
Don't worry about him, he is not worth it but go on with your life and hopefully the next guy you will meet will be honest and sincere. Good luck!
2006-07-10 08:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by aysha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you better not waste your time pursuing a guy who's been so irresponsive to you so far. The mantra is to let go off someone like this...if he's yours he would come back to you someday for sure. Repeated attempts to reach him would only drive him further away from you as he would not value your efforts to keep in touch.
2006-07-10 08:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by sourav04_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty obvious this guy is avoiding you. Just move on. You can confront him after and let him know how immature and stupid he is for he could have stood up like a man told you that he's no longer interested. But i guess his excuse will be that he didnt want to hurt you. Just move on baby... you have nothing to lose and absolutely nothing to gain in him.
2006-07-10 08:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hot all over :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesnt. Ive been there myself. Us girls get annoying sometimes with all the calls, emails, ect...And some guys get scared off that way. I remember I like this guy, he found out, and asked me out. we went to one movie together, and the next time I paged him, called him, he avoided me. ******. Why even take me out in the first place?
2006-07-10 08:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNO THIS DON'T SOUND LIKE GOOD ADVISE... BUT YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE THAT HE OBVIOUSLY DON'T WANT YOU... AND YOU REALLY NEED TO LET HIM GO... CAUSE I KNO THE FIRST MONTH THAT HE DIDN'T RESPOND TO ANYTHING HE WOULDA BEEN TOSSED TO DA SIDE SO FAST... NOW THATS MAKIN' YOU LOOK DESPERATE AND NEEDY... AND TRUST ME YOU DO NOT WANNA SEEM THAT WAY AT ALL CAUSE ONCE GUYS START SEEIN' YOU LIKE THAT THERE GOIN' TO START TREATIN' YOU NICE AND MAKIN' YOU DO EVERYTHING FOR THEM... AND THEN ONE DAY HE'S JUST GON LEAVE YOU AND YOU GON FEEL REAL DUMB... TRUST ME IT'S HAPPEND TO ME PLEANTY OF TIMES AND IT DOSEN'T FEEL GOOD AT ALL... SO PLEASE STOP IT WHILE YOU CAN CAUSE I WOULD HATE TO SEE A FELLOW FEMALE GET HURT AS BADLY AS I HAVE EVEN THOUGH I DON'T KNO YOU CAUSE I KNO HOW EMOTIONAL FEMALES ARE... AND JUST TO LET YOU KNO... SOME GUYS DON'T EVEN MEAN TO BE THAT WAY THEY JUST ARE CAUSE THEY CAN BE... AND NO IT DON'T FEEL GOOD SO DON'T GET YOURSELF IN THAT PREDICAMENT... WELL I HOPE FOR THE BEST... HAVE A GREAT LIFE AND GOD BLESS YOU SWEAT HEART...
2006-07-10 08:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Q-T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes you are something else. He doesn't like you and doesn't enjoy talking to you. Don't take it personal you will probably run into a lot of that as you get older. Everyone has someone they irritate
2006-07-10 08:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you're trying to squeeze blood from a rock. he's not interested anymore. we all have idiosyncracies and when someone gets to know you they run in to things that they don't care for. it's not you he's not liking, but for him it may have just been a preference for something else.
2006-07-10 08:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother him no more move on to someone else he is obviously a punk and can't tell you that he doesn't want to be bothered anymore
2006-07-10 08:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other fish in the sea- catch some of them and forget that one.
2006-07-10 08:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋