we were friend for a long time. I feel like she was not being respectful at a time of need.I had just found out my father have cancer,my aunt was sick in the hospital(by the way she died)and I was having problems with my teenage son.yes I was yelling on the phone.I want to call her because she was a good friend.should I? I
2006-07-10 08:10:48 · 19 answers · asked by shante' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you know if you do that to me, i do the same i hung up the phone on you. is not nice. she is good with you, but look like you have quick temper, you get angry to fest. call her and speak with her, and tell her you are sorry. we all have problems, but if your friend dont yell on you,and only you on her, is not nice of you.
so call her, have fun with her. you are not bad person, you just dont know what is write and what is wrong.
CALL HER AND APOLOGIZE GIRL.
i am sorry for your father, is what god give to us.i hope all be good. god know why we have problems and......
wish you all best and lot of happynes
2006-07-10 08:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she hung up? Because phone service here sucks horribly and I always lose calls at the most inopportune time.
Were you using your friend to dump all your problems onto? If ou were using her too much, then she might have been justified.
My advice is to apologize for yelling what you said. Then ask her why she hung up and really listen. It sounds like you had a good friendship going on and you really need a friend right now, don't let a small quarrel ruin it.
2006-07-10 08:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should call her! If she is a true friend she will accept your apology. You were going through a hard time in your life and let your emotions reflect that over the phone. But why did she hang up the phone on you? If she hung up because you were yelling...call her back and apologize. I think the best way to do it is to call her up and tell her that you would like to take her out to lunch. Then explain to her why you acted that way. Hopefully she will understand. I would. Good luck.
2006-07-10 08:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One wrong shouldn't be replaced with another wrong. I realize you are having some family issues right now. While I don't condone anyone hanging up on anyone...you should have just said "Listen...this is not going anywhere...let's talk later" and then said your "good-byes". Call your friend up and apologize...and tell her you are under tremendous stress...tell her you need her friendship more than ever right now.
Friendships are hard to come by...especially long time friendships. You don't need any more added stress...but you do need someone to be there for you in thick and thin.
You know what's right...call your friend up and mend things up. The longer you wait the harder it will be.
Good Luck.
Now stop reading this and pick up that phone and call. CALL HER NOW.
2006-07-10 08:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you check to see if she was having a bad day too. Maybe she is fret up of your complaining and wanted to shut you up for a while. All of us needs to realize that we are not the only persons in this horrible and crude world, other people have problems just like you and me and sometimes they can't deal with their problems that is why you look for someone else to lean on. Maybe because you have been leaning on her for support, sometimes she needs someone to lean on too, you know sometimes persons can't hold on all of your brudens and theirs at the same time. Go talk to her as a friend and share some happy times.
2006-07-10 08:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by angela414_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road and call her. Freinds are very rare and if you have one you should cherish them. And who says that your friend and you have to agree on everything or never quarrel. A true friend is someone you can argue with and disgaree with and the person still remains your friend.
2006-07-10 08:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by profoundatheist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel the need to call her you should, you would be surprised at how people forgive eachother, she probably is waiting for you to call,especially if you have been friends for a long time.
2006-07-10 08:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call and apologize ... whether she understands and accepts the apology is not anything you can control, but you'll feel better to have apologized for what you did when stressed out by the situation.
2006-07-10 08:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by twstdlzrd211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should apologize, even though you may not feel it's your fault or not. She may be feeling bad about it too but she doesn't have the guts to tell you sorry.
2006-07-10 08:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes say you are sorry.If she is a true friend she will stick by your side through the hard times.
2006-07-10 08:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋