i dont want to hurt her feelings or have her leave me for my past, i think if she finds out it is such a large number she might freak...
2006-07-10 08:04:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
first of all - 200+ isnt a lie. 4 years of college + 3 years of bachelor life... the # isnt a lie, women are easy when you know what they want to hear. im glad i have some supporters who dont hate on consentual sex like a pack of jealous apes.
2006-07-10 08:19:49 · update #1
I've been with many, many women, too, and I don't understand where all these "freek" comments are coming from. You didn't rape them or otherwise force them did you? If you're not in a committed relationship what's wrong with experiencing safe, consensual sex with as many partners as you like?
Frankly, I think most people are hypocrities with a serious case of sour grapes.
By all means, be honest with her. You may have slept with a lot of other women, but you're only with her now. Unless you're a sex addict, she should have no problem.
2006-07-10 08:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by intaleckshul 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't know if people you are dating are entitled to information about your past or that it is even healthy to discuss your past.
I know that I certainly would not discuss my past with anyone I was dating other than in vague terms.
They are entitled to know whether you are disease free and what kind of relationship you are looking to have.
The "200 girls" fact is going to affect people. I might say that I've been fortunate to have dated quite a few women. It helped me determine what I want in a relationship.
2006-07-10 08:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure the number is true or are you just making up that number so you can sound like a real man around you boys, yes i know it is possible to have sex with that many but most guys just lied to sound like they a big stuff, i bet each girl you had sex with will have a good story about you also, plus how many did you paid to sleep with you. Oh yea to answer your question tell her the truth.
2006-07-10 08:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by lover6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
200 ? Have u ever heard of the 3times rule? Men always say they have sex with people 3 times more then they really had to make themselves look manly and women will say 3 times less so as not to look like a slut... so without trying to put you down... i guesstimate you slept with 70+ girls which is a clap clap not bad for me...back to your original question..it depends how much you really love her... i suggest using it as your trump card..use it when you caught her cheating or u really cant take it anymore with her and really want to break up with her...
2006-07-10 08:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by no_ones_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there goes the "I can make you feel special" defence.
Believe me, one way or another she is GOING to find out. Though you might be able to trim the number down a bit, as (a) realistically, you're unlikely to run into more than say, forty, and (b), she won't believe 200.
2006-07-10 08:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by DreamWeaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...that is a lot...but still be honest...and if she likes you that should not matter...She may be way past you on that number so it can go both ways...Protect your self my friend...you can never go wrong with being honest when sex is involved...and he she does freak you know that there are plenty of other fish baby out there...Yeah you know
2006-07-10 08:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by CreateSomthing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you've had a lot of girlfriends and she is your favorite. Don't get to the number at all. Just tell her it's more than you care to count, because she's all you care about now. Tell her you can't even remember them because you've finally found the one you were looking for all that time.
2006-07-10 08:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think you might ever see yourself spending the rest of your life with this woman? if so, then you should be honest. A true relationship is built on honesty.
If it is too soon to tell whether she is the 'one,' then it's up to you.
What is in the past is in the past...she can't change it.
2006-07-10 08:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by KarKar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, duuuh! If you are sexually intimate with anyone in this day and age-you be honest. Don't you know how much disease is spreading? Tell her, or it will come out in your blood test. You have to take a blood test when married.
2006-07-10 08:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Daddy's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would freak but it would depend on how long you've been together and OF COURSE how old you are to have 200 girls.
2006-07-10 08:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Obilee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋