Im datin this guy and ive been away for less then a day in a half.......and my sis didnt come.im at my gradnparents..well come 2 find out hes been wit my sis.like talkin and walkin.but she has a b/f 2.im afraid hes cheating on me..i talked 2 him he says hes not but thats when her b/f was there and i also found out that they told my best friend that they talked to me one day and i said i was mad at her for no reason..i dont no what 2 do.he claims he didnt say it but i really dont no what or who to belive...should i talk 2 him again, say its over, or just drop it. i dont want 2 lose him hes the only guy thats ever been serious with me..but i dont want him 2 cheat on me either...so what should i do...help me plzz.any advice will be greatly appreciated
2006-07-10 07:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hes 4 years older than me and im in school and he isnt..he might b goin 2 college 2
2006-07-10 07:40:41 · update #1
we r not doin nothin sexual or anything like that
2006-07-10 08:13:53 · update #2
just ignore him, **** guys! They suck!
2006-07-10 07:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand what you're going through. Its hard to be able to trust a guy and know he isnt doing anything while you're away. Especially when you're afraid to lose him. But one thing you wouldnt want to do is ask him a lot if he's cheating. You dont want to sound insecure because than he might start distancing himself from you. But know that when girls have this weird feeling that something is going on, they're usually right, especially if he's acting different around you. What you should do now is let him miss you a little, wait for him to call or something because then he'll have some time to himself to think about how much he doesnt want to lose you. And maybe he's befriending your sis because he likes you and wants to get to know your family better. But dont worry, if something happened, you will find out and then you will know he wasnt worth it.
2006-07-10 14:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by lucy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!!! Of course, most men do not admit to cheatin. You will find some that will but NOT many. I say move on and stop worrying about it. It isn't worth it. There are other things to worry about instead of him cheatin on you. Now if he was your husband, then the issue would be handled differently but since he is just a boyfriend...kick his a** to the curb!!!!
2006-07-10 14:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god,why does everybody on here remind me of my sister?! Ok,get your boyfriend and your sister together,sit them down and just straight up ask them what happened. Chances are the stories won't match if he has been cheating with her which will induce a big fight between them leading to your answer,Good Luck =)
2006-07-10 14:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad joke. If you can't trust him now it isn't going to get any better. You should always go by what your "gut" is telling you, you're usually right. Trust me, the right guy will come along.
2006-07-10 14:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs older and hes in college....and im guessing ur in highschool... looks like sagutory rape 2 me >_> most guys that hook up wit younger girls look for nothing but the worst :X
2006-07-10 14:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get answers that you want.
His actions and reactions decide your next course of action.
2006-07-10 14:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh grow up!
2006-07-10 14:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, If so, give him up.
God bless you.
2006-07-10 14:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spy on him find out wat he does with who he hang's out with wat boy's or girls and ask him where do wat did u do any1 new did u meet 2day GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-10 15:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by girl9847 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋