But he always call to tell me he misses me.
2006-07-10 07:20:56 · 17 answers · asked by My-Phung 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sounds passive-aggressive to me.
Rather than wondering what HE is thinking, why not ask yourself if this is the kind of behavior you're ok with in a relationship. If you want more, go find it elsewhere. We get what we settle for.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 07:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to give good advice.
So here interpretation.
If you call him 10-20 times a day just because you are bored and wonna know what he is doing and his answer "I am busy now", he would be normal and you are needy. Learn yours and respect boundaries of other people.
If above is not your case, and he has no time for at least 3-4 evenings/nights a week just for you, then yep he is not serious about you. Look for Mr Right again.
2006-07-10 07:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by out-of-blue-sent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you as a bed buddy. He doesnt really care about you. He said he misses you so you can feel like he gives a crap about you. But in reality, he only need you when he probably can't get any. SO he'll call u up and start saying all that sweet crap so you can feel sorry for him and end up doing you. I say dump this guy and find a real man who knows how to manage their busy life and their love life. I sounds like you still love him so I doubt you will have the courage to get rid of him. I hope you can get your head out of the sand and realized that this guy is using you for his pleasure only.
2006-07-10 07:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by epicwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely would get rid of him. Someone who truly cares about you can make time to see you. Unless it's overseas or something, there's no excuse for not seeing you! And he may be calling, which is sweet, but it seems to me he's just yanking you around, keeping you there because all it takes is a phone call instead of truly putting forth effort and seeing you. How long have you been together? have you told him he should be trying to spend time with you? let me know some details, I'd love to help.
2006-07-10 07:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by nikkib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to Lilly for crying out loud. he's calling to tell you that he's missing your bedroom decor, not necessarily you per say. so, when i comes to an actual daily relationship, which is what you desire, he's shying away by saying he's busy. guys are jerks that way. they are created to lie like that to get their way...take it from a woman who's gone through the good and bad with them. times change, people don't!
2006-07-10 07:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by irie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds confusing! Since he calls often, my guess would be he's actually really busy at work. Either that or he's a two timer, I don't know. You have to look for the subtle clues.
2006-07-10 07:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you enjoy letting yourself get played like that, find someone else. He ain't into you. Guys love to string girls along. It's some macho genetic disorder in men.
2006-07-10 07:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book "He is just not that into you" you are one of those if all else fails women. Ok I'll go with her.
If he wanted you he would be there. They make time for what they want.
Get another one
2006-07-10 07:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a one sided relationship, he wants you there if he needs you
2006-07-10 07:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a guy of convienience. He will be there, when it's convienient for him. Find someone who likes you for you!
2006-07-10 07:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋