2006-07-10 07:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by truckers_wife97 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-10 07:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unruly kids need to be put in line.. My sister has a kid that's very unruly. Hes been kicked off the bus. suspended, and hes only in kindergarten... When I am there, the kid is a little angel as he knows that I will not let him get away with nothing... I got on him, about school and explained to him the importance of friends and how they will effect him in the future, he has not gotten in trouble since... I guess what I am saying is You have to buckle down on his "problem" Don't let him get away with anything, everything he does that's trouble, make him know that hes in trouble for it.. even if it means hurting his feelings, or a guilt trip on him.. Grounding him to the chair... Threaten him with sending him away to the girls school... and never seeing mommy or daddy again.. Threats work great,, so does a good bark... When my son is in trouble I yell once very loud HEY!!!!!!!! and he jumps. it scares him makes him jump. and that works so far with him. (hes only 4 now).. Also let him know your mad by the tone of your voice, Make him think about what he did, ask him why he did it, tell him that hes not done being in trouble until he can tell you why it was wrong to do what he did... Keep to it every day every minute, and by the end of the week you will see a better him... You have to be mean when he is in trouble.. that's the only way to save him...
2006-07-10 07:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by ntlgnce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all find out if your child has something get him checked..then once you know that if it is just him being unruley you can send them to a regualr school...and if they have a disability you can also send them to a regular school but you need to talk to the school about that because some schools dont have good support groups for children with disabilities...and if not then im sure there are some out there
2006-07-10 07:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe there is but I can tell from experience of being a single mom, I felt the same way. If your husband is a trucker then he needs to help discipline when he is around and maybe help make things crystal clear to them that you say they listen or do when he is not home. I maybe think hes tired and just wants to rest but they maybe trying to get a message across about DAD and only you and your husband are going to be able to get this under control together, and as I said before make it CRYSTAL CLEAR when DAD is gone MOM is last word and they need to realize it before he gets back. I really feel for you and can only imagine what else is going on with them, but I hope for you luck and that you can get this worked out before you have a breakdown yourself. I will keep all women who go through this in my prayers....god bless Caryne
2006-07-10 07:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by caryne g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alternative schools, but I don't know if they start at that young age. The person who said you should take the child in for counseling and evaluation is right.
Even if there are alternative schools for young children - the child would probably encounter children worse than he or she is - and the experience could turn out to be very negative.
2006-07-10 07:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are this child's parent, what are YOU doing to give attention to the child's needs? I freakin' hate it when everyone just slaps labels on kids calling them ADD, ADHD, etc., when what the child *really* needs is good old fashioned ATTENTION and PROPER PARENTING! If you can't "handle" your child, then what makes you think someone else wants to? ALL behavioural problems start at home. How much time are you spending with the child? What activities are you doing with them? What types of discipline are you using? Or is the TV just your answer to babysitting?
2006-07-10 07:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mandelas Boot Camp!
2006-07-10 07:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Answer_master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are 4 let them be. Kids that age are like that anyways and it sounds like they are bored. You should put them into a sport or gymnastics. You will see a change. My son is like that and he is 4 1/2 so I put him in soccer and now he is fine and not out of hand.
2006-07-10 07:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are many out there, at least around where I live. A friend of mine works in a kindergarten class (it's Preschool through 2nd grade at her school) that is behavioral. Look around for alternative schools, and you could contact your local public school district for guidance.
2006-07-10 07:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea a school of thought called an a$$ whooping
2006-07-10 07:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by BeachBABE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a social worker. Probaly need to be on some special medication. Also see a psychiatrist.
2006-07-10 07:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋