Basically what has happened is that my friends ex who is the father of her son chatted me up and we exchanged numbers! I didn't know it was him and when she found out he had my number in his fone, I lied to her about how he got it. I said someone gave it to him. However he is saying that I was kissing him and I was willing to go to his house which is a complete lie!
I have explained to her that I didn't know it was him but she won't listen and keeps telling everyone I want to sleep with him! Now she wants to fight me! I have told her I'm sorry for lying but what else can I do?
2006-07-10 07:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I think your biggest mistake was lying on how he got your number to begin with. You should never lie, period..there really is no reason to lie to anyone. Ever. That being said, I think you should apologize for lying, tell her you made a mistake because you panicked as you realized that the boy you gave your number to was her EX, something you did not know. Then just tell her that as far as the EX goes..you want nothing to do with him, beings he is her EX..that ends that. And then tell her, that it only reflects poorly on her by talking trash on you, shows she still wants her EX...if she can't get over it..then f*ck her....she obviously isn't worth keeping as a friend. I mean with friends like that who needs enemies?
2006-07-10 07:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think you should have told her the truth in the first place, that you were chatting (I'm assuming on-line) and exchanged numbers! But since that's out of the window now it's going to be hard to convince her that your telling the truth, you should just take this a lesson learned that it's best to just be honest. Your probably going to have to talk to her face to face, tell her that your not trying to fight her & that you just want to clear your name... and then tell her EVERYTHING let her know that he is lying (which she probably already knows he's a liar anyway b/c they aren't together!) BUT most importantly you should apologize to her! This might not mend your broken friendship but at least you have said your part , got it off your chest and cleared your name!!!
Good Luck
2006-07-10 07:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Almond_eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call her and explain to her the situation. I got a couple of friends that have the same problem and i tell them to explain to their friends the situations and they have work
Good Luck and i'll be here if you need me
2006-07-10 07:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her. Who needs toxic friends. And ditch him. Sounds like a complete waste of space.
She's not being a good friend.
"A friend is not necessarily someone you love because of who THEY are,but because of who YOU are when you are with them."
2006-07-10 07:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her get over that child buisness and if she want to fight u kick her ####
2006-07-10 07:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by attitude girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋