help me!!!??!?!?!?

Question

please dont be horrid to me about this its just i dont no wat to do and its getting me down, i get very jealous of other girls which i think are pretty and more stunning than i think i am, its stupid and nasty and i dont want to feel like this, can anyone help?

Answer 1

Well obviously you recognize that you have a problem....what I would seriously suggest is to stop watching TV and Reading Magazines.....Start reading books and doing other things non media related..even if that means going online....take some time to yourself to reflect on things without the distraction of TV and Internet....Then think about life in a differnt way....go to a book store and read some books....and then try to come to the realization that it doest ever matter what other people look like...what matters is how you feel about yourself...and obviously you need to start liking yourself.....

EVERYONE LOOKS THE SAME WHEN THEY ARE DEAD...remember that

Answer 2

no no my dear don't do that to yourself. It is no good for your self image. Every person is beautiful, stand in front of the mirror and give your self a different hairdo,add a little make up and smile,always smile when looking in a mirror it helps. If you think you not pretty , it always counts what is on the inside of a person,whats in your heart. You properly very kind and try to help others, so this is why you don't feel so happy about yourself,because people take advantage of you. Don't let them. Go an buy yourself a nice little top and be happy. If you are on the heavy side, try to loose some weight, eat less carbohydrates, if you to skinny don't worry try to eat a little more. Be confident of yourself by walking straight and don't slouge. Hold your Head up high and smile you will see it is going to make a difference. Be happy you are healthy

Answer 3

Hunny you need some self-confidence! Of course people are going to see the outside first,but the inside matters too.Instead of sittin back being jealous join in the fun.Quit comparing yourself to the other girls.We notice are "flaws" more than other people do.It wont be easy to just join in the group at first,but once you start doing that,I think you'll like what happens.Good Luck!You can do it!♥

Answer 4

Society portrays a "perfect model" so to speak of the A-typical male or female. As younger, moldable kids, we hear things like he or she is sooo cute. We are praised for looking our best. Peers base their friends many times by their looks. The answerer above is correct when they say, put down the glamour magazines, walk away from this prison of self image. I would attempt to find friends you can trust or a support group and begin discussing your feelings and lack of self worth with people who have been where you are.

Answer 5

... well, judging off ur user name, im going to assume you think very much of urself, and the problem most likely is that u dont want others to be better than you. now im not dissing u or anything, and my answer isnt going to be a diss, just honestly what i think you should do. and that is get over yourself. there are many people who arent as pretty as u, or w/e and u should be happy u look the way you do.

Answer 6

Jealousy means that you want something that someone else has. Look at your own self--everyone has certain traits that they can learn to love about themselves if they just see how beautiful they are. Say these things to yourself and see yourself as the wonderful person you are.

Answer 7

yea i get that way to but u have to realize the world dont revolve around one person and theres probably plenty of guys that think very "sexy" girls are very ugly........maybe you could got to a ( i dont know how to spell this it is to long so i will sound it out lol sy-ky-a-triss) sry i couldnt spell dat....well anyway TRY to at least take some of my advice

Answer 8

Yes, quit reading CosmoGirl and watching television - that is where you get your negative thoughts from.

Concentrate more on beign a nice person, and less on worrying what everyone else is doing.

Answer 9

Um...just think as your self as the prettiest person in the world and then u will think "Hey whats the point of even being jelous.."

Answer 10

Get over yourself...
There will always be someone better than you.
Your looks won't last forever so you better work on your personality in the mean time.