I have a crush on this guy for about 2years and 7months but then I met a girl the ha turned out to be my best friend and my crushes girlfriend a bit later he broke up with her and she was crushed. Now she isn't so bad , but she still likes him. The problem is that it's the only secret I have from her and I don't feel confortable about it. Should I tell her?
2006-07-10 07:10:22 · 16 answers · asked by giggles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You either love your girlfriend more or you don't care. If you do love her and trust her then you can either drop this guy or ask your girlfriend if she would have a problem with you liking him and maybe want more. I tell you, girlfriend (as bestfriend) are the most important people as well. They will help you thru the good and bad time. You won't find anybody like her. I think of your girlfriend1st.
Me, my girlfriend is my best friend for more than 25 yrs. I rather have her around than taking a chance that our friendship ends. Our friendship is so pure that we help one another, are there of each other, a shoulder to cry on, we have trusts, secrets that no one knows.
If your is like this, then think it through or ask her. That what best friends are for. If she say, she will have trouble with it then I will just drop him. There are other fishes in the sea.
2006-07-10 07:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be honest with her. if you are true friends she will understand. Also listen to her too, he may be a crush but could be a bad seed. Sometimes the crush is just a crush and you should leave it like that!
Becareful in your own decisions!!!
2006-07-10 14:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by icexr791 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is one you need to keep to yourself.
If you tell her, then you are saying you really like the guy that has caused hurt to her.
If you don't tell her then she will still see you as a friend who completely understands her.
Do you really value this guy over her friendship?
2006-07-10 14:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes your friend you should tell her. even if it means hurting her feelings. if you never hit on him while they were going out i don't think it should be a problem. as her friend she deserves to know the truth. do you really want to keep this secret from her forever? i know i wouldn't want to keep that from my best friend.
2006-07-10 14:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok what are the posibilities of you getting back with your friend that you have a crush,
2006-07-10 14:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i tell my friend when i have a crush and she just goes after him if you're sure shes over him i guess you can go ahead and tell her but she might try to talk to outta it because she doesn't want him to hurt you the ay he hurt her
2006-07-10 14:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell anyone about your crushs! it can ruin it, if he doesnt want to go out with her that is her problem. he broke it off so he probably wont want to go out with her.
but, if you feel that if you go out with him it will ruin your friendship
then you will have to chose between
~boyfriend ~or~best friend~
2006-07-10 14:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. I mean your friend went with him and if you went with him too that would be REALLY akward and kind of like "sloppy seconds".
2006-07-10 14:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if dat is ya bestfriend i think u should tell her an if yall r bestfriends like u say yall is nothin can go wrong from dat
2006-07-10 14:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Queen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her If you'll still like him i will kick you out
2006-07-10 14:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Yaman The Knight Of Darkness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋