Does she like me or not? This girl has me really confused!?

Question

I’m close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her 3 weeks ago. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. But over the course of the last 3 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled together intimately a lot. I would say we act as boyfriend and girlfriend.

She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. We go out for dinner and she wants to hang out together each day. She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours. She says she wants to meet my family and get along with them.

She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by her last two boyfriends not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again. She still talks a lot about her last boyfriend who hurt her badly – Basically used her and then suddenly stopped all contact with her without explanation!

What does this mean? Does she even like me? Am I being played for a fool and don’t see it? Help please I feel really confused!

Answer 1

This girl is playing with your emotions like a yo-yo! I'm really sorry for her terrible behavior. She knows you have other-than-friends feelings for her, and she is laying it on you BIG TIME. If she really had feelings for you, then she would know that you wouldn't use her like her past boyfriend's. I'm sorry, man. This girl isn't worth your time.

Answer 2

OK the fact that she has had two boyfriends recently might be a red flag. Perhaps she did not get the attention from her father she needed and she is trying to capture that in a boyfriend. Obviously, she likes you. She is scared to have a boyfriend, but goes through all the motions of being your girlfriend. That would make me think that she wishes she could be your girlfriend, but she is scared to call you boyfriend...because doing that makes them run away. So, treat her like a princess, but don't call her your girlfriend. She may come around...if you truly care for her, then you will allow her the time to do so. If she doesn't come around, well you will have still gotten to enjoy her company and friendship. Be supportive, it's all about her right now. You have a tightrope to walk. You need to be there for her, but at the same time, if you do not present some sort of challenge, then she has nothing to pursue and you will be her friend an nothing more. Patience is going to be required. I do not think she is playing you for a fool at all. Take her to meet your family, but inform them that if they call her your girlfriend that they better sleep with one eye open from now on.
So here we go, be really supportive at first. Then in a few weeks start adding in a little bit of smart ***, just a little bit. Keep it funny, but it needs to be a little bit cocky too. Example, you guys are eating and she wipes her mouth with a napkin. You can say something along the lines of "Drooling huh? Well I hope you know I have feelings, I'm not just another handsome face." Sniffle twice, then laugh at your own joke, she'll laugh too. But then she will also look at your face and think to herself how handsome you are, and how funny you are. That's two bonus points for you and since you were a bit of a smart ***, you tapped that bad-boy thing she is attracted to also. Hang in there man, I know you like her and maybe it will work out. If it doesn't, it will work out with someone else.

Answer 3

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

It sounds to me like she really likes you, she is just afraid to put a label on it. Give her time and keep spending time with her. Be her friend and see if more grows from that friendship. Keep telling her houw you feel, but tell her you understand her fear and that you hope in time she will trust you enough to let herself love you. Tell her you don't want to pressure her, you just want to spend time with her. Be patient, I think she already likes you more than she wants to admit.

Answer 6

yupp she does like u.. all of wat she does r signs. But like u said she's just scared 2 get hurt again.. Just show her that you could be different that u won't hurt her. L3t her feel safe in ur arms . Just be ur self. I got a feeling that the two of u will be a couple in no time. Just let her get over her fear. BUt just help 4get..

Answer 7

I think that she really does like you, she just doesn't want to say that ur "boyfriend and girlfriend" because of what happened last time.

Answer 8

Well, she does seem to like you. Yes, I have read your looong story and it seems official, you guys are acting like gf&bf. Try asking her a few weeks later when she forgets about her boyfriens and when her pain goes away. Who knows what she'll say?

Answer 9

no i don't think she is making u a fool. bcuz u r already a fool.. just for joke...i a m serious.. she is defenetly scared of boyfriends.. then also she wants to be with u.. that means she wants u.. she will not reveal her real emotions bcuz of that 2 cheaters. she really likes you..

Answer 10

Hey pal don't be upset she is fully into you , but as you said the last 2 boy boyfriend badly hurted her selfsteem this is what is holding her back .This time she wants to conform that fall in love do not hurt .
so don't worry just be with her untill she feel fully secure with you.

heres a poem for you , give it to her if you like it and once again don't be affrid one day her herself will propose you .

YOU CAN BE INFORMAL WITH ME

your size, your height,your sides,
who you are?
your past,your dead life,
who you were?
it does'nt mater to me.
I have seen a door,
hidden in your eyes,
can you hear bell ringing,
its me on the door,
stop watching me from eye hole.
don't ask for tea,
you can be informal with me,
your cloths are tight,
I can see delight in your eyes,
I know whats happening inside.
let tears fall from eyes,
they are safe with me,
drop your cloths,
relax your voice,
you have beautiful inside.
I know your lips,
do you know mine,
don't hesitate,ask more,
add feathers to your mind,
fly high,climb heights.
falling will not hurt,
with me by your side,
east,west,north,south,
nothing wrong ,nothing right,
you can be informal with me.