2006-07-10 06:58:59 · 36 answers · asked by ajfan6789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XXXXXXXXX if you believe it is so and you see the signs Yes. Dump him. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-10 07:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From the way you phrased the question, I can only assume that your bf is avoiding you and you are therefore coming to the conclusion that he must be cheating...
If he is avoiding you, ask him why. Depending on his answer you can then move forward on asking the right questions to find out if he really is cheating.
DO NOT ACCUSE him.
If it is that he is busy with work, school or chores, see if there is some way you can help him get these done so that you can spend more time together.
Offer to help him manage his time and other commitments more effectively or adjust your schedule if you can to make time when he is available.
DO NOT be a doormat though.
2006-07-10 07:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking strangers this question, why don't you pose it to your boyfriend. Don't accuse! Ask if there is a problem that as a couple you two can iron out. He may be have peer pressure problems, rather than cheating. Trust breeds Loyalty. Not everything leads to cheating, unless it's you who is cheating. If your friend say he's cheating, I still say ask him. Don't accuse him of cheating, don't be judgmental, for you yourself don't like to be judged!
2006-07-10 07:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Insight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to find out. Go up to him, look him in the eyes, and say "Listen here punk, are you cheating on me? You rascal you, well are you?"
He will say "Wha?? No baby, why would I. You're beautiful."
If he looks in your eyes when he says that, he is probably saying the truth, otherwise. Start looking for a new boyfriend.
2006-07-10 07:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask yourself this question, it means that you have doubt in your mind. You may love him with all your heart, but there is a reason for why you would even think that he may cheat. Go with your instinct. Like I always say, if you are doubting something, chances are that it's true.
2006-07-10 07:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm then make him not your BF anymore.. There are plenty of men in the world that will treat you like you want to be treated. A real man would accept you for who you are and would not want you to change anything about you, giving you the freedom to be who you want to be in life. He sounds like a loser that's using you for something when he has nothing better to do...
2006-07-10 07:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by ntlgnce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would need little more info, but if he's acting weird and trying to avoid you, then yes something is wrong.
2006-07-10 07:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but most likely. Remember, a womans is intuition is a very powerful thing.
2006-07-10 07:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I saw him cheating on you.
2006-07-10 07:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask strangers on the internet then I am going to have to say YES
2006-07-10 07:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Manda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
2006-07-10 07:00:51 · answer #11 · answered by hard_long76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋