2006-07-10 06:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by Citlaly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
from a long distance phone call
2006-07-17 06:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my boyfriend would be excited that we were gonna have a baby so I couldn't wait to tell him. I left him a message on his cell to call me and when he called he knew something was up and just wanted to know right then and I couldn't keep it in much longer so I told him over the phone that I was pregnant. At first his reaction was along the lines of "... what?" and " are you sure it's mine?" but when I finally got it through his thick skull that he was gonna be a daddy he was so excited. I still remember the look on his face. If you know he's gonna be excited then tell him straight up and reassure him if he needs it. If you know he won't be excited and he'll be scared ... well try it in a gentler way. Sit down and have a serious conversation with him about it when you tell him. Good luck!
2006-07-10 15:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. You didn't tell us whether this is expected or unexpected, whether the news will be good news to him or scary news. If he's not expecting it and might have a hard time accepting it, tell him gently and be prepared that his first reaction might not please you. If he's a good guy and you have a good relationship, he'll come around. If this is good news, have fun with it. A themed dinner or gift would be a fun way (like maybe a "World's Best Dad" picture frame or something.)
2006-07-10 14:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on what kind of person he is.
Make sure that you are in a quiet place where you could just let him know that you were feeling awkward and found out you were pregnant. Don't be afraid of the situation or what he might say, regardless of what his response is, the baby is here and he is a part of both.
He will be surprise just like you were, mixed emotions, but at the end happiness will show. Don't stress yourself about to much, your baby can feel it.
Good luck!
2006-07-10 14:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys will dump a girl because she is pregnant..only the dogs do that. Come out and tell him. It is best he find out from you than from someone else.
2006-07-10 13:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him an airbrushed shirt that says "Baby Daddy" =p and prolly even get a carvel cake, and have the person write "I'm pregnant" on the cake I'm sure he'll be suprised and least expect it =D
2006-07-10 14:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, Dad!
2006-07-10 13:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully your an adult and then it should be easy just say it. but if your a teen which by the spelling of the word "pregnatt" you should have your parents and him and his parents all sit down and have a talk. and tell him that way.
2006-07-10 13:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by missieeeG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't just go up to him and say, "Sweety, I'm pregnant" he will dump you. You have to give it time. Ask him, " Honey, if I were pregnant, what would you do?" You will know the answer after that.
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2006-07-10 13:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by nnnbbbxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and sit next to him and tell him hunny we are going to have a baby!!!!
2006-07-10 13:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋