she is to young to have a baby?

Question

my best friend is 15 and sleeping with her bf with out protection she said that he enjoys it better please......... help me she wont listen to me when i talk to her what should i do... she can bearly mind herself!! let alone a child

Answer 1

If she must have sex without protection, she should at least start taking birth control pills. Just tell her it will help clear up her skin. You are absolutely right, 15 is far too young to have a child.

Answer 2

YES SHE BLOODY WELL IS TO YOUNG AND IS A TOATL IDIOT...


Not half the moron DAX is who got lucky...


Stiff willies leak pre ***, seimin to lubricate it... So you can't prevent pregnancy by pulling out before you come as there is Seimin in there already

Look heres the best thing you can do... Unless in a 3 some you can't amke her use condoms, and pills can be forgotton...

However the Depro injection is like a 3 month contrceptive pill. If she has that whilst she can get STDs with unprotected sex she wont gert pregnant.

Now in order to be a good friend you can't always be nice as being nice actually hurts peopel sometimes...

Ie if she was a heroin addict you getting big guys to drag her into rehab and forced cold turkey would be you being nice and whilst during the time she ill hate you and fight you... In the end when clean she will treat you as a good friend...


This is the same... You need to FORCE her to get that injection...

Ie if she does not you can have her arrested and the boyfriend, or tell her parents and MEAN IT !!!!!!!!!!


This way her sex is still enjhoyable but can't get pregnant... She can have her cake and eat etc...

But without the risk... Or you tell parents, teacher and the police.


If you just tell the police, teacher or parents then she will just find some way to be with the boyfriend...


But my way its an easier choice, one little prick of a needle and you are off her back.

Or any other way ie get big mates and drag her there.

Threaten to smash her stereo

Photograph them and use it as blackmail... ANYTHING you can to get her to have that injection (then agin in 3 months)...


if not she WILL I gurantee that get pregnant then both lives are ruined.


So you have to be mean and I really mean mean to force this...

You can mention if the boyfriend is arrested she wont see him again, as he will be arrearted, stuck in jail where he gets butt raped by the prison rapists who try and cut off the balls of sex offenders then after that he gets labled a pervert

or one little jab and you shut up...



If that dont work get violent.... Whatever bruses you give her even a broken arm its a lot less hurt then getting pregnant will.


And boyfriend will dissapear if she gets pregnant and no guy will want her with a kid.


So threaten violence... get help from mates... Anything to get that pill...


She may for a while not want to be your friend. But eventually she should get you were her best friend for doing that

Answer 3

She should go to see the nurse at her local doctors surgery or go to a family planning clinic to be given the Contrceptive Pill as soon as possible. As a good friend, you can offer to go with her for moral support, as she may need someone there with her. If / When she does go on the pill, she will realise that it is easy and no one will need to know, and at least she wont be putting herself at risk of pregnancy any more.
This is all apart from the fact that she can contract STDs like herpes, chlamedia or even aids - it might be worth printing some scary info of aids sufferers off of the internet which may give her a wake up call - if she says that her boyfriend doesnt have anything, as her how she knows this for sure - if they go and get checked out at the GUM clinic together, they are sure to be offered contraception there too.
Good luck, and well done for trying to help.

Answer 4

I think the first thing you should do is show her this webpage with the world's responses to your question! I agree with almost everyone who has responsed to this question, having unprotected sex while she is very aware of the consequences is very, very risky and irresponsible.

I don't think her boyfriend really cares or respects her either. Otherwise he would encourage her to use contraceptives even if they are being faithful to each other. Birth Control pills aren't expensive and there are many on the market now that don't have serious side effects of the earlier versions. He is not thinking about her future goals or plans for her life if she gets pregnant.

Its unfortunate that she is not listening to you, but I think you've done your part as a good friend to warn her.

Answer 5

One of my favorite pseudostatistics is that stupid people have more babies than smart people because smart people understand the consequences of their actions.

You should whack your friend upside her head. Tell her that her boyfriend "feeling better" in the sack isn't worth the potential costs of getting a nasty disease or getting a bundle of agony.

Two other things to keep in mind;

1. Let her know that this kid will almost certainly turn tail and run if she gets knocked up.

2. She may be underage according to her state's statutory rape laws. As a last resort, you could potentially pull this legal trivia out if you really want to end it that much.

Answer 6

Doing it without protection can be done if her boyfriend knows when to take it out she wont get pregnat. I've been married for 3 years and I don't use anything for protection. But as a friend you should ask her if shes ready for a crying around the clock baby, and ruin her teenage fun life.

Answer 7

firstly she is lucky to have a good friend like you who cares enough to ask this ?.
secondly, if she is so naive to go ahead and have unprotected sex because she enjoys it more, then she needs some intensive tutoring on sti's as well as pregnancy.
She is behaving very stupidly and will only have herself to blame when trouble comes knocking at her door.
shame you cant show her some of the answers im sure you will get. it might shock her a bit to see peoples responses to her behaviour.

Answer 8

yes shes too young you need to tell someone older than both of you get an adult if she wants to continue sleeping with this guy she should atleast be protected you need to either get an adult or her parnets and do it fast before anything happens..tell her that you just care about her and that you want her life to runs as smootly as possible tell her you're looking out for jer just like a good friend should do

Answer 9

If she won't listen to you, then tell her one last time to see the doctor and go on the pill. If necessary, take her to see the doctor yourself.

If that doesn't work then your next duty is to tell her parents for her own good. She probably won't think it a friendly thing to do but she has her head screwed on wrong, so how can she judge?

Answer 10

If all else fails, you should probably talk to her mother. I know you probably don't want to break that "best friend" promise that you won't tell, but in situations like these where someone you love could get hurt (or pregnant, because yes, she is too young) you must tell her mother or guardian.